i will 0bey Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Quick Question. I know you're not supposed to take Minocyclene while you're pregnant but I'm not 100% sure that I am pregnant yet and I got worried to whether I should stop taking it now or not. Any help would be appreciated. Link to comment
armchairshrink Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 No matter what drugs you're taking, I'd say your first priority is to find out if you're pregnant! Go to a drug store and buy a home pregnancy test. My doctor told me that those things are about 99.99% accurate (although accuracy will be lower if you smoke pot). If you get a positive, then you can make an appointment with your doctor and figure out what to do with your prescription meds, and all that stuff. But find out if you're pregnant ASAP! Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Annnnd you don't know if you're pregnant.. Whhhhhy? lol Find Out! Then you'll know what to do about the drugs. But Find Out If You Are Pregnant First. Good Luck. Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 I assume that is birth control? If it is, if it is in the first two weeks of pregnancy (aka you are not late for period yet so don't know if you are pregnant) keep taking it. Early on there is no evidence it does anything, and also you don't even know if you ARE pregnant. Otherwise no one would ever take pill last couple weeks as they "could be pregnant" (anytime you have sex you COULD technically get pregnant after all). What makes you believe you might be pregnant if you are using birth control? First thing to do is keep taking your pills, and get a test if you are close to start of your regular period or late for it. It takes 1.5-2.5 weeks from conception (so from a couple days before expected period to a week after it was supposed to start) to be able to test for pregnancy depending on the test itself and your own hormonal level. Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 5, 2005 Author Share Posted July 5, 2005 Nope, Minocyclene is a antibiotic to control acne. I just went over my calendar and figured everything out. I thought I had like a week until I was due but I'm actually due tomorrow. I'm going to my aunt's house tomorrow night and she already has one waiting for me to take as soon as I get there. I don't have the money to buy one right now so she got it for me. If I went to my mom, I would be dead.. Yeah, I'm stupid. 15 and possibly pregnant. No hate messages please. I'm only asking for help here, I don't really feel like being criticized right now Link to comment
arwen Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Yeah, I'm stupid. 15 and possibly pregnant. No hate messages please. I'm only asking for help here, I don't really feel like being criticized right now Easy, easy. So far you're the only one calling yourself stupid I think it's a wise decision to go to your aunt, and you will know for sure. Keep us posted, ok? You are looking for support to go through this, and you came to the right place. Maybe it helps if we know more about the reason why you are scared of pregnancy. Obviously because you are late with the period, but this happens to all of us and stressing over it usually makes it stay away even more. Did you use any form of contraceptive, like condoms? That would at least lessen the chance of pregnancy. Ilse. Link to comment
RayKay Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Nope, Minocyclene is a antibiotic to control acne. I just went over my calendar and figured everything out. I thought I had like a week until I was due but I'm actually due tomorrow. I'm going to my aunt's house tomorrow night and she already has one waiting for me to take as soon as I get there. I don't have the money to buy one right now so she got it for me. If I went to my mom, I would be dead.. Yeah, I'm stupid. 15 and possibly pregnant. No hate messages please. I'm only asking for help here, I don't really feel like being criticized right now Ah yes, some acne meds are bad for growing fetuses. However, early on, two weeks in, I would not worry too much yet as it is still not a sure thing yet. If you are pregnant and find out tomorrow, stop taking it though, and be sure to let your doctor know though you were on it. Sounds like you have a great aunt though I hope things turn out for you, please keep us updated as to the results. If it is negative and still no period, take another one in a couple days in the morning if you can (results can be more accurate with first morning pee). If you are negative, breathe a BIG sigh of relief and be careful from now on! Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 [Well You're Just Everywhere Tonight, aren't you raykay ] Also sounds like you've done this one before rk. In the morning it is more accurate. But it's more or less 99% accurate anyway. Find someone to confide in. You'll need someone to be there for you throughout this ordeal. Let us know how it goes Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 5, 2005 Author Share Posted July 5, 2005 Thank you for those replies. They really helped. Yeah, we did use a condom but it was too big and I didn't know it until he had already gone and it was too late. If I had known it was too big, I wouldn't have done anything. The reason I'm scared of being pregnant is because my mom has always told me that if I get pregnant before I'm married she is MAKING me get an abortion and I'm sorry, I completely refuse to ever have an abortion. Plus, my best friend told me that if I even hooked up with him she would be extremely pissed at me and now look, I think I'm pregnant with his kid. The main thing I'm worried about through this entire thing isn't telling my parents or the father, I'm worried about losing my best friend. Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 She only said that to try and protect you from.. well this basically lol. [no offense intended] If she is a real friend she'll be there for you no matter what. Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 Also, No one can make you do anything that you don't want to. Try not to worry about this too much until you get the results.. At least then you will know what your choices are and the decisions you have to make. Or [if negative] how to move on with life. Again, Please keep us informed of what happens Good Luck. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you. Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 5, 2005 Author Share Posted July 5, 2005 It wouldn't be so much of a problem if it's illegal for her to make me because I do have a place I can go if she kicks me out. I'm just worried that it is legal and she can force me to have one. I was planning on if I am pregnant not to tell her until I'm atleast 13 or 14 weeks when it's too late to have an abortion. Yeah, she probably was protecting me from this happening but honestly, I'm a 15 year old rebel teenager. I have always gone behind my parents back and done stuff just to see how much I could push the limits. My mom is nothing near being a friend, never has, never has tried, never will try. Most girls would go to their mother for stuff like this, I would go to my father if I need to. I could never tell my mom. If I am, I'll tell my dad and have him tell my mom. Link to comment
darkblue Posted July 5, 2005 Share Posted July 5, 2005 I know what it's like. At that age I was always a daddy's boy. Then when my father passed away in my late teens, I lived with my mum til I had somewhere to go. I could never really connect with my mum either. But she is your mother and at the end of the day, she only wants what is best for you. She may not show it, or even show she loves you, but believe me she does. Later in life you will reflect on how you rebelled, and maybe when your children are older you will be able to be a mother that has open communications with your children. I'm not entirly sure about the laws in the US as i'm from UK. But in the UK, you are not legally allowed to be 'thrown out' of your house until you are sixteen. Doctors are also confidential in all countries, which means your parents wouldn't have to find out if you go to them with problems. Keep that in mind and remember that you need someone to be there for you throughout this.. how about your auntie? Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 5, 2005 Author Share Posted July 5, 2005 My aunt was the first one that said anything about me possibly being pregnant. I didn't even think of it, she did. I told her how I was sick for a few days straight and she asked exactly how I felt and I told her and she definitely thinks I am from that and then she asked me if my breasts were tender and they were so she definitely thinks so now. I know I can always go to her for anything and she isn't going to say anything to my parents. I want to be the kind of parents that my other aunt and uncle are. I'm not saying that I would let my kids to the same thing, but my uncle was raised in the 60's and 70's and he smokes pot. He told my cousin (she's 16) that if she ever wanted to try it, come to him instead of getting it from a stranger because who knows what it could be laced with and he knows that it would be safe with him. She can tell her parents anything and yeah, they might get mad and scream and want to kill her, but they stick to her side through everything and really listen to what she has to say. I want to be a parent like that. More of a friend but still with parental qualities. I honestly don't know if I would actually be upset if I am pregnant. I would be ready to give up the rest of my teenage years for my child. I am willing to do anything to keep my baby safe if I am. Link to comment
armchairshrink Posted July 6, 2005 Share Posted July 6, 2005 I Will Obey (funny name for a self-described rebel teenager ;-) ), Not to get too personal, but just how late are you? Morning sickness doesn't normally set in until the second trimester or so. Speculation only causes stress; just take the test. BTW, I don't advocate abortion either, I'm for informed choice for any woman regardless of age -- but consider all your options. The whole pregnancy/motherhood gig can be pretty tough even when you're old enough, happily married, not working, and still have enough money. Just ask your mother! ;-) Um, and speaking of "old enough" -- do you know the statutory rape laws for your state? You sound pretty calm for someone in your predicament, but be prepared for panicked reactions from the father and his folks. When will you see your aunt? Tomorrow? Please keep us posted! Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 6, 2005 Author Share Posted July 6, 2005 lol i will 0bey is from a song called Blood, Sex, and Booze by my favorite band in the world, Green Day. It's like ... You know I will obey, so please don't make me beg, for blood, sex, and booze you give me.. sorry, I'm bored and have nothing to do for a few hours and time to waste. I refigured out dates and all and I'm actually due today. I wasn't sure about when the morning sickness would set in and most websites said 4 to 5 weeks so I have no idea what's going on. It's not just the sick that has me looking towards pregnancy either. My mom had my sister when she was 17 so I know I could ask her questions but she just found out a little over a week ago that I was sexually active so if I went and asked her that, she would get extremely suspicious. From what I know, stuatory rape laws in New Jersey are 18 for the male if the female is under 16. Yeah, I'm only 15 but he's only 17 so from what I know, it doesn't count. The Father actually may be happy about it. I layed in bed thinking about it last night because all he talks about is how he can't wait to get away from his parents and move out. He can't legally get and apartment until he's 18 and he's trying everything in his power to get out. I'm not sure about how his mom is going to react but his dad is a cop so pure hell is going to break lose. I'm leaving for my aunts house around 6:30 tonight. (it's Wednesday now) Link to comment
armchairshrink Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 I refigured out dates and all and I'm actually due today. Well, then the pregnancy test ought to work just fine. I wasn't sure about when the morning sickness would set in and most websites said 4 to 5 weeks so I have no idea what's going on. A trimester is about 6 weeks, so it's roughly the same time frame. Plus that, there's a lot of variance between individuals. So you're destined not to know what's going on! I have a couple of observations to make, but I'll save them for when we have the results of The Test. I'm leaving for my aunts house around 6:30 tonight. (it's Wednesday now) Girlfriend, I've been where you are; my thoughts are with you. GOOD LUCK! Link to comment
i will 0bey Posted July 7, 2005 Author Share Posted July 7, 2005 Negative. Thank God, I mean yeah, I do want kids but not this early in life. Thanks for the help everyone. Link to comment
SexySadie7 Posted July 8, 2005 Share Posted July 8, 2005 I will obey..I would stop takin the medicine if you think you might be pregnant and are intent on keeping the baby.. Antibiotics.. i know you are supposed to keep taking.. but it's not going to kill you if you have some acne...You don't want to risk birth defects for the unborn baby if you ARE pregnant. Say.. how does smoking pot affect A home Pregnancy test? well... sure you can get morning sickness in the first trimester... that's a bunch of nonsense you only get it in 2nd trimester. Your breasts might feel heavier than normal and start getting bigger.. you also have to pee alot more after awhile.. If you aren't pregnant I Will Obey.. please try to get some more effective birth control than condoms.. I know.. i've had them break on me too... You could read my thread if you don't believe me... also if the guys comes alot.. or hasn't had sex in long time .. he can actually ejaculate enough sperm to overflow the condom.. That's happened to me also with a boyfriend.. So. yeah.. I DON"T trust condoms that much anymore there's other birth control out there.. course the pill would be ideal.. but you may have to get your mom's consent for that.. there's contraceptive foam and there's a little spermicide called Semicid.. that is good too.. not the best method.. but a whole lot better than using a condoms alone. Make sure too that your bf gets a condom that fits him next time.. they come in all sizes... Good luck I will.. i know how stressful this all is. Take care Link to comment
bronze Posted July 11, 2005 Share Posted July 11, 2005 Only 15 and going through so much! Next time, I suggest, you try out a dual protection method.Other than condoms, you should also try doing it on the safe period days. These give double protection. Normally, ovulation is around the 12-14th day , so a few days before and after periods is considered safe. If you are interested, I can be more exact.. Link to comment
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