intime00 Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 7 months ago i met a girl, we talked everyday for weeks. then it ended. turns out that she was talking to someone else and it took off. it ended after a few weeks because her ex came back and wanted her back. then that did not work out either, who did she call? yes, me. and i started to hang out with her, she wanted my friendship, but she knew how i felt. we have been hanging out for 3 months, no sex or any major physical contact. we have both said and done things that would make anyone watching think that we like each other. then she backed off a lot. i tripped out. i spoke my mind and it had caused more of a gap. she went from calling me everyday to sometimes 2 or more days, yes i could call her, but come on............i like her , she knows it. it is in her court. i treat her really nice, flowers, dinners, gifts. now she had been making a point of how we are friends and not together. i guess i should just let go. she mentioned that the ex calls her and it hurt to hear that. i think that she is seeing him, this would crush me. i really put myself out there for this. there are so many other things that have been said and done between us that would give more insight, but whatever. Link to comment
fate or freewill Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Sounds like she needs time to get over her ex and to decide if she wants to pursue something with you. I would suggest that you back off for the time being and let her figure it out. In the meantime, you should get on with your life, see friends and date other girls. Link to comment
heloladies21 Posted July 4, 2005 Share Posted July 4, 2005 Best thing for you to do right now is strict No Contact and talk to other girls. Don't look back. Link to comment
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