Know what to do but don't want to

[g790403]

I don't know where to start so I will just try my best to not let you guys get confused. My bestfriend and I have this weird thing going between us. since last oct. we started to flirt a lot. At the same time he was dating a person and so was I. One night after his birthday party we had sex but we were both single. After that he thinks that we can continue doing this. He planned to come to my house this tuesday to have sex. It's not just him the one who needs it, I do too. I don't know what to do now, it seems like we shouldn't be doing this anymore but I think it's ok and he thinks it's ok too. Will there be any side effects from this?

[QTpie87]

yes there will be side effects. See you might start to want more then just sex (like to date you know) and he might not want that, and then you will be like well we are having sex and all so why not and he might be like well I thought it was just a friends with benifits thing. I think you should only do that with someone you care about and cares about you (more then just friends). I say if he or you aren't willing to date the other one and only the other one then you shouldn't continue to have sex.