justme1607307251 Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 On tuesday my family and I will go to visit my grandparents (they live in other city) just for a couple days but the trouble is that when i stay in the hotel my parents are gonna make me go to the pool b/c i have to take care of my little brother and i dont kno what to do they problably will see my scars!!!and im completely frightened about the fact that they realize about my cutting issues Link to comment
winterfairy Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 Don't swim. . . or wear a tshirt and shorts. That's what I do. I got scars all over my thighs, though I haven't self injured in several years. I never go swimming if I can help it. If I do, I cover up (or I make a lie that I forgot my swimsuit). Though I don't suggest you lie- because that's just wrong. Good luck. Link to comment
AuroraManson Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 don't worry mabey its a good thing. I dont' like it when other people see my scars especially my family but they will find out sooner or later. They can help. Link to comment
justme1607307251 Posted July 2, 2005 Author Share Posted July 2, 2005 I cannot use shorts b/c i have some scars on my knee and 2 on my ankle Link to comment
ghozt Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 yea just were a shirt but if you have to take it off take it off right befor you get in and tell some one to throw it to you when your done that what i normaly do because i have scares all over my torso because of fighting and i dont like every one to see them Link to comment
smallworld Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 I cannot use shorts b/c i have some scars on my knee and 2 on my ankle Can you wear a long skirt? or a sarong? Link to comment
Caldus Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 Or you can acknowledge that your cutting issues could very well be discovered by them at some point. You can keep hiding the scars from them, but notice how tiresome and worrisome you become when you try to hide issues like that from people (especially your family)? Link to comment
dpressedone89 Posted July 2, 2005 Share Posted July 2, 2005 dont swim. try make up. i always wear long sleeves and stuff but i use white powder for scars on my neck it works pretty well as long as you dont get wet.if you hae to swim i dont know what to tell you except hope they dont notice. uhm you could say you dont feel well so you cant swim. sorry to hear about your problem good luck though -sTiTcHeS Link to comment
justme1607307251 Posted July 7, 2005 Author Share Posted July 7, 2005 im really happy we are not going...YET my mom is sick but she will be better in a week so i havea more time to plan something or i dont now... any more suggestions??? Link to comment
Caldus Posted July 7, 2005 Share Posted July 7, 2005 im really happy we are not going...YET my mom is sick but she will be better in a week so i havea more time to plan something or i dont now... any more suggestions??? The only thing you can really do is hide it somehow but honestly ... they will figure it out at some point or another. Link to comment
justme1607307251 Posted July 15, 2005 Author Share Posted July 15, 2005 thank you guys you really helped. Link to comment
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