Actvity ideas hanging out with a new guyfriend from work?

[cattalk]

Hey all,

I'm working this summer, and I intuitively like this guy. I would like to hang out with him outside of work and become friends...yes, that's all I want. I only like his personality, and I have a boyfriend already. I don't know what activities we could do on our first outing?

It would be nice if I could get some suggestions...

Thanks!

[mysteryman]

Bowling or coffee would be good. I dont know if you 2 are into them but video games/arcades are also fun. But expect jealousy from your bf.

[DropToZero]

Yea...like mysteryman said...did you run this by your b/f? B/c I know there's a girl at my work I flirt with and some other guy is always talking to her, I doubt it would go over well with her b/f if he knew what was goin on at her job....even tho I do find her very trustworthy and faithful to her b/f, it's just ...take a look at it from your guys point of view, would you care if he became very close to some other girl and was hangin out with her alone?

[Shidoshi]

I would like to hang out with him outside of work and become friends...yes, that's all I want.

I hope you make this VERY clear to him before hand so you aren't leading him on. If I became friendly towards a girl and she asks me to hang out I would automatically assume she had romantic feelings about me. Platonic friendships I've had with women pretty much just happened, they were never pursued by either of us.