how can i get that special gal i know, plzzz help

[bathroomslipper]

my one is a long story, i dont want to bother you by telling that boring story. the fact is, i had a crush on a gal, it happened almost a year ago. i thought that it was a usual crush, i'd forget her soon, but after a year still i cant forget her. infact, i WAS not interested in any kind of relationship. but that cute lil gal made me change. still today i think about her. so, i think it is no more a ordinary crush.

 

plz people, help me. i donno what to do. i'm always afraid that, if i just go and talk to her, she might get hurt. i dont want to hurt her anyway.

 

another problem is, i am a bangladeshi ordinary guy. im 20, and she's a daughter of a rich father. she's 19 or 20. we are in same university ... though she's two years junior of me.

 

i dont have experience of proposing any gal, or being dumped by anyone ... so plz, someone give me some advice.

[whatdoyado]

I think proposing to her wouldn't be the best idea. I would recommend that you two go on a few dates. Neither of you want to get hurt so try going slow. See how things are going from there. (I've liked this guy for four years now, and I think it's time for me to say something to him, possibly, if I don't chicken out.) But If you've been crushing on her for a year and can't stop thinking about her then go do something with her.

[bathroomslipper]

thanks whatdoyado for ur suggestions. but u didnt get me what i was askin about. so, im tellin about our status briefly...

 

we met her a year ago. i think she also had a crush on me, as she used to be around me all the time. at that time i was totally "not-interested" on any realtionship, so i just ignored her. after 6 months she have to left for a residential semester. so, i havent seen her for a while. when she came back [after 4 months] she seemed to lose interest. anyway ... i liked that girl from the beginning. but i thought it was a simple crush, i would forget her. but i didnt forget.

 

so, 2 weeks ago, i decided to talk to her. i didnt know her name, in which department she's studying, even if she got any BF.

 

i recently engaged a guy and a gal for helping me. surprisingly, the guy is in one of the same classes of her, and the gal came out to be that gal's chilhood friend.

 

still, i cannot think of anything. it is not possible to ask her for any date... and yeah, by the proposing i meant to propose her to going out, sorry i misused that word.

 

plz help me. i think i dont have much time.

[heloladies21]

You think that you talking to her might hurt her??? Come on man, next time you see her take one large breath and say hi. Then start talking to her about anything which comes to mind. Don't let the opportunity pass ever.

[whatdoyado]

Ask her for a date. It's as simple as that. Tell her you dig her and didn't even know her name but that she's been your mind since day one. I don't think your going to hurt her or anything. Propose to her on going on a date...that's a great idea!