What seperates a date from just being friends?

[HiHiHi]

yeah, so i'm a little confused about this.. (read subject)

 

what are differences between the places you hang out + the things you do when you're involved and when you're just friends? (I'm talking about with the opposite sex, in this case, girls)

 

thanks

[annie24]

I don't think it's about what you do, it's all about the chemistry and attraction between the two people.

[chai714]

what are differences between the places you hang out + the things you do when you're involved and when you're just friends?

 

The tone that you set, what is talked about, body language, mannerism, and more.

 

"Chemistry" as it is often referred to as, means "common," as in common personalities, common interests, common values, common whatever. With a "friend" you might talk about your ex, your family problems, or whatever. With a date, obviously you want to be viewed as "attractive" and thereforeeee the content of your conversations would differ as opposed to hanging out with a friend. It boils down to intent. I have a couple girl (friends) who I can talk about my life with. One is married, the other is not, but I wouldn't ever consider anything more with either of them. thereforeeee, the content of our conversations is less guarded because there's nothing at stake.