Anyone else experience this?

[DropToZero]

Hey all,

 

I'm not sure exactly where this could fit, b/c its more of like a 'kissing'/'dream' thing with emotions mixed in....but I'm not going to get in too deep on that, I'll just say what I wanna say.

 

I was wondering if anyone else was like me in a sense where...well I guess your dreams drive you crazy! I can explain this tho....there's this girl I have been pretty good friends with over the past couple of months, we just became really quick friends and comfortable with one another...nothing more. I had intially thought of asking her out when I first met her, but then realized she had a b/f(but now they're broken up), so that was done....I lost all interest in that idea, but we still hung out here and there and talked in classes a lot and stayed in touch up till the last day of the quarter.

 

The problem I'm having...is I really did lose interest in her that way because I'm getting better at picking out signals of interest thru flirting or whether or not we're just doing it for the fun of it. And it always seemed like it was just for the fun of it, so I liked what we had, just a good fun friendship. Now just the other nite...I had this dream tho....I remember a lot of it, but I'm not going to get completely in depth on it. Pretty much what happened was it ending with her in my dream some how and in the end she leaned in to kiss me...and I said that's not what I wanted...but then it ended.

 

Now I'm definitely not one of those people who thinks all dreams literally mean something...this one is just driving me crazy tho. All day the other day I had the urge to call her up and ask her out with other intentions than just hanging out like we'd been doing(but I held out). Does anyone else have this type of thing...this type of thing has happened to me before, like where a dream will make me 'realize' something somehow....but I'm just curious if anyone else has ever had it happen.

[angel200488]

Yeah, I have had a similar "experience"...I thought I didn't want to make more with this amazingly guy friend of mine..yet I kept having reoccurring dreams of him. Sometimes the dreams seemed like reality (we were just hanging out) and then sometimes things would get really emotional (nothing bad, but more then what our friendship was)

 

With that said, it has been suggested that dreams are a reflection of our subconscious thoughts and wants...meaning in your case:

 

(A) You DO want more then a friendship with her-and you are afraid..?

(B) You think about her a lot-Duh?

© You WANT her to WANT you in "that way"- I see it most this way because in this dream she is approaching you

 

Hope this helped, good luck!

[Mr Meh]

Sometimes dreams should be interpreted literally too.

 

She is trying to kiss you and you are saying that you don't want that. You also said that is the way you feel in real life (ie lost interest). Maybe your subconscious is just confirming that for you.

[DropToZero]

(A) You DO want more then a friendship with her-and you are afraid..?

(B) You think about her a lot-Duh?

© You WANT her to WANT you in "that way"- I see it most this way because in this dream she is approaching you

 

A) I don't know what I want...hah, I really think it would be better just as friends anyways...I like what we have and don't wanna ruin it.

 

B) No...not really, I hadn't really given her much thought until the day she IM'd me...and then that dream...but that's about it.

 

C) I have no clue what she wants...I don't even know what I want, dreams just make me think b/c they're almost like a movie in my mind that keeps repeating and its hard to forget what happened even though it wasn't real.

[angel200488]

Yeah they can be hard to forget sometimes. By ©, I just ment that maybe in this "movie" you wanted it to have the ending that you once wanted. Who knows..? Maybe it could mean something great or nothing at all..only time will tell..