How to make peace with the insult?

[sensitivesoul12]

In 2014, I came late to a class. Teacher made me sit on the floor. After a while, he said "Your father has paid fees. Move this side so you can see the board and take value of the fees." There was no room to move, so I said "Sir, it's okay." He said "Its okay if you dont take value of the fees?" And entire class laughed. I am not able to sleep and live my life. That insult is buring in my mind entire time. I know manifestation and it works. What should be the good revenge so that my mind feels peace?

[MissCanuck]

If you are still hanging on this 10 years later, I would respectfully suggest you seek some counselling. 

Manifestation is not going to help you. 

[Tinydance]

Um is this real? You honestly can't move on from that one comment from ten years ago?

[TeeDee]

A good way to make peace with it is to accept that you did need to learn respect for the teacher & appreciation for the money your father spent on your education.  You also learned that not every authority figure is correct all the time.  The teacher handled your lesson poorly. 

But it was 10 years ago.  You need to let it pass.  Everyone else was over it in 10 minutes.  

[catfeeder]

I forget who said, "Living well is the best revenge." If you've had no other humiliation come along to replace this one in the last ten years, you are either very lucky or very sheltered.

If manifestation works, why have you not used it in your own favor to overcome this within the last decade?

One option is to use your manifestation powers to minimize the importance of this instance over the course of your entire lifespan rather than amplify it beyond your ability to move beyond it.

Head high.

[Cherylyn]

This happened 10 years ago.  Learn to let it go.  Like you,  I harbor a lot of resentment and bitterness to those who've mentally abused me to the core ans sorely tested me.  There's nothing you can do.  Stewing doesn't help.

Stop living in the past.  All you can do is focus on the present and live your best life.  Do what makes you content,  enjoy solitude,  take care of your health and surround yourself with very moral people.  If you're faith based,  go that route and worship with your brethren. 

Develop workarounds.  Be the best version of yourself.  Concentrate on your career.  Your options are limitless.  This is how you build security within your skin. 

Life is unfair.  However,  never allow bad experiences to have a grip on you.  Keep forging ahead.  Develop the power of positive thinking.  🙂 👍

You make peace with the insult by forgiving.  Forgive doesn't mean forget nor condone.  Forgive means to move on instead of dwelling on whatever consumes you.  Forgive doesn't mean you give free passes and excuses to those who've wronged you.  Forgive means you continue moving forward,  not going backwards.