I'm a bit confused by what girls truly want.

[Andrina]

On 11/10/2024 at 6:44 PM, ssboii360 said:

I'm really curious to know what the women that I've dated see in me when I'm never anything like their ex's

You're asking too many questions, getting your intestines in knots. How about concentrating on the present, letting time reveal all? Tell yourself you're worthy of being treated great, and if you're not, see if communication fixes things and if it doesn't, walk away. As said, it's women with poor self esteem who pick and stay with unworthy men. If they gain self-esteem, they choose better the next time. Put effort into your relationship, enjoy your activities, and stop with all these unnecessary questions about bad boys and exes.

On 11/10/2024 at 7:00 PM, ssboii360 said:

I had bad experiences with women that I'm talking to constantly bringing up how attractive another guy is to my face

Also as said, you should've walked away immediately. That's on you.

There are two types of nice. A good nice which is doing thoughtful things for your partner and being kind. The bad type is being too nice, gushing like a stalker, being passive about your own wants to appease what you think is the woman's wants, overriding whatever you want to do.

Read some books on changing the reel in your mind to a more positive mindset and to boost your self confidence.

[catfeeder]

On 11/10/2024 at 7:39 PM, ssboii360 said:

On 11/10/2024 at 7:30 PM, Batya33 said:

don't think your gf is a good match for you.

Why you say that?

Because if you were invested in your GF, you wouldn't care about appealing to a sub-segment of other women.

Either you enjoy simpatico with your GF, or you don't. If so, why care about other women, and if not, then what are you doing with her?

[ssboii360]

3 hours ago, Batya33 said:

motherly" affection

I guess I should have said feminine touch or feminine affection instead. That's a good question but I'm not sure if they're looking for fatherly affection. But probably not because a man with fatherly affection, from my definition, is not going to act like an idiotic bad boy.

[ssboii360]

2 hours ago, Andrina said:

Read some books on changing the reel in your mind to a more positive mindset and to boost your self confidence.

Lol I see your point and I've already thought about exactly what you've said which only made me think that most people just suffer from low self esteem due to statistics showing a mental health crisis...buttttt I understand your point.

[ssboii360]

41 minutes ago, catfeeder said:

Because if you were invested in your GF, you wouldn't care about appealing to a sub-segment of other women

Well don't you think that it's good to understand how a group behaves so that one can become better at pleasing the individual that we're interested in within that group? Although yes, I get it.. people are not monoliths but they're also not their own species. 

[catfeeder]

2 hours ago, ssboii360 said:

Well don't you think that it's good to understand how a group behaves so that one can become better at pleasing the individual that we're interested in within that group? Although yes, I get it.. people are not monoliths but they're also not their own species. 

No, generalizing makes no sense. The one to learn about is your GF. If you want to build a fascination with a sub-segment of egotistical dolts who mistreat one another, then that's got zero to do with pleasing your GF and everything to do with too much time on your hands.

[ssboii360]

21 minutes ago, catfeeder said:

No, generalizing makes no sense. The one to learn about is your GF. If you want to build a fascination with a sub-segment of egotistical dolts who mistreat one another, then that's got zero to do with pleasing your GF and everything to do with too much time on your hands.

Well you're a bit too angry lol Women and their attitudes. Generalizing is not the right word I'm looking for. You have 2 arms. That's a generalization. Statistics only works based on generalizing but that doesn't mean at all that each individuals are going to fit all the aspects of the same data. I don't care anymore though the moment someone gets aggressive is when I get turned off. And you really turned me off. This is a great example of a behavior that would cause me to block someone im talking to the moment they even attempt at having an attitude like yours. Too much time on my hands? What a stupid insult. Haha your opinion has lost all credibility. I have a job and my own place and a life with my partner. You're completely insane hahhaa

[MissCanuck]

39 minutes ago, ssboii360 said:

Women and their attitudes.

And you believe yourself to be a mature man? 

 

[ssboii360]

1 hour ago, MissCanuck said:

And you believe yourself to be a mature man

My maturity is dependent on how stupid some people are. What a stupid statement! I can tell you're not mature because what was the point of that? You clearly see the other person being an ass first because she clearly takes my pov the wrong way even though she can't prove me wrong. The moment someone stops being mature then I have every right to drop any civil bone in my body or is that so hard to understand? Do you have any more idiotic crap that you want to write? You clearly aint willing to engage politely with the original point of this post..Now *** off if you're going to be ass. Gosh no wonder this world is failing.

[MissCanuck]

Yes, yes, very mature. 

I cannot see why you struggle with women. Such a mystery, that. 

[ssboii360]

Just now, MissCanuck said:

Yes, yes, very mature. 

I cannot see why you struggle with women. Such a mystery, that. 

Yes, I struggle very much when I have a whole gf. Hahaha