Its been 5 years

[Bolond76]

She has i bf for a couple of years, think they still togheter. Seems going well for our kid but he never speak about The bf when its my week with him. Kid is 5 years old. I got a new girlfriend and told my ex about that because of our kid. She started driving past my house(?). After a while she blocked me on fb(??). WHY is she doing this!? 

[Batya33]

Perhaps she is uncomfortable hearing information about your new girlfriend. Maybe your child sees what is posted on facebook on her screen and she's concerned he'll see something that makes him uncomfortable.  I would ask her why she is driving past your house.  Why ask strangers on the internet?

[shouldhavelearned]

Maybe she doesn't have the bf anymore 

[Bolond76]

She still has the bf. I just dnt understand the drama. Her having a bf and stepdad is fine but me having a new gf and stepmom is dramatic as hell(?)

A while after we split she blocked all my familj on social media. My family said they only wanted to see our kid and what he is doing on her childweek. 

Both her and me are going to see our kids grandparents and family members through out the years so its so childish to block when a kid is involved. 

We have met the social security and court due to her wanted 100% custody. We where obligated to let the other parent know about when our kid where at the doctor, dentist or other important meetings. She dnt tell me anything about that. 

At court? Still 50/50 so i guess i "won".

Edit: she has said nothing about having a bf and its been almost 4 years. Ive asked but she just got mad. 

[Batya33]

I would keep your interactions to simply whatever has to do with your children's well being. I'd stop speculating over why it's ok for her to have a bf but not ok -seemingly -for you to have a gf. Maybe she's a person who needs some maturity maybe she was having a bad day.  It has nothing to do with your life. If she gets abusive or extreme then it might affect your children etc that's different. I'd move on from the perceived drama.

[ShySoul]

What other people do often has little to do with us and everything to do with them. This is her insecurity/jealousy. This is her issue. If she wants to create drama and act out, it is her choice. It's a sign that she hasn't moved on or isn't comfortable with things. You can't control it and it does you no good to worry or think about it.

Be civil and interact as much as you need to for the child. Otherwise, you don't need to have anythng to do with her. If she wants to block you, consider it her doing you a favor.

Focus on your own life, your own relationship, and most importantly, on your child.

[smackie9]

Speculating on this is a waste of time...as long as the rules are being followed, everyone is healthy, you still get to see your child, that should be enough. I wouldn't be concerned about being blocked on SM...maybe that can be a good thing. Her driving by your house...she's not breaking the law. It's annoying but there's nothing you can do about that. The best reaction is not having any reaction. Focus on your child, ignore her.