Masterbating better then actual sex ?!?! Help!!

[waytoodown]

Hey!

in the past 2 weeks, me and my bf had only had sex once until yesterday, so I had 'gotten used' to playing with myself. We had sex twice since yesterday, and well....I don't know why, but sex didn't seem to feel as good as when I was playing with myself( this is the 1st time that sex doesn't feel better, usually it's wonderful....). I am confused! I couldn't even orgasm, which I usually do with no problem.( I obviously haven't said anything to my bf about this, I'm pretty sure ot's not something that he would like to hear...lol)

Anyone know what is going on here? Any advice?

[misery12]

It sounds as though you have grown immune to the feeling of masterbating, because of the masterbation to sex ratio.

 

Have you always masterbated a lot more than you had sex?

[sidehop]

I'm not sure about other women but I've heard how some stimulate their clitoris during intercourse...have you tried it? My ex seems to get off really hard when she did that...

[waytoodown]

Since I have been having sex, I usually get more sex and masterbate little. As for stimulating my clit, that is usually what I do that makes that I get off easily, but even that wasn't working!

.....Any other ideas?

[goddess23]

first of all its normal to find masturbation more pleasing than sex because you get to know EXACTLY how to touch where to touch and everything else. so dont feel bad, and i wouldnt tell your bf either but i think you could just simply start masturbating infront of him. let him watch you, and maybe he could observe...

[TheVindicator]

Sex just ain't as good as the real thing?

 

[generalization alert]

 

Masturbation=pleasure

 

Sex=intimacy

[OverParanoid]

Maybe your bf is not turning you on as much as he used to before. There is nothing wrong with pleasuring yourself, but maybe the attraction you have towards him plays a big part in why you choose to masterbate more then having the actually act...