spilledbeans Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 I constantly catch a girl from my class staring at me. We have had a conversation once and we hit it off. Yesterday she randomly turned around and asked me how my day was. The strange thing is that she has a boyfriend. Btw i am a girl and i cant understand the meaning of all this someone help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 Maybe she is socially awkward and wants to be friends or maybe you do your hair/wear a certain accessory so she stares at it. Why not ask her - like "do I have something on my face? you are staring at me." If you hit it off why not invite her to hang out with you? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeeDee Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 If you & she are the same gender she can stilb be friends with you despite having a BF. Unless you are gay & attracted to her, then you have to stay away because she is in a relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Coily Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 Sounds like she's not great a being friendly. So this his he just being chatty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smackie9 Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 TBH we don't really know either. Guess you will have to find out through her. If you have feelings for you, that sometimes gets you reading things that are not really there, and signals distorted. She might just be friendly, wanting to make friends, But yes she could be bi curious...but that's a conversation down the road to have with her if you want to pursue this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cherylyn Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 Asking how your day was is merely being amiable. Don't think too much into this. Just be pleasant without being overly chatty. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuthenticSelf Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean she cannot talk to other people. I know a girl who still talk to so many guy even though she was married. She is beautiful so if a guy does not know her relationship status, he even thought she was interested. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted October 1 Share Posted October 1 39 minutes ago, AuthenticSelf said: Just because she has a boyfriend does not mean she cannot talk to other people. I know a girl who still talk to so many guy even though she was married. She is beautiful so if a guy does not know her relationship status, he even thought she was interested. But the OP is female. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuthenticSelf Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 2 hours ago, Batya33 said: But the OP is female. Girls has boyfriend talk to other girl is very common. I don't know why we think it is a big issue. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shouldhavelearned Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 Be friendly She might need someone to talk to or study with Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Batya33 Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 9 hours ago, AuthenticSelf said: Girls has boyfriend talk to other girl is very common. I don't know why we think it is a big issue. Yes I think it's a nothing burger and I don't understand the issue here -she has a boyfriend and wants to befriend other people - sometimes that is an issue with befriending men but certainly not a woman. I have close friends who are gay men, heterosexual men and I am friendly with women who are hetero, bi, gay, etc. I am married. If a gay woman flirted with me inappropriately I would treat it same as if a man did so - I would create appropriate distance or avoid entirely depending. I think the OP is wondering if this woman is attracted to her sexually. I wouldn't assume that from what she described. She may just wish to develop a friendship and perhaps has some social awkwardness as I mentioned above. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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