Is this a valid reason to leave my bf?

[pinky]

An update I broke up with him today  it hurts but after speaking to him about the situation 2 days ago. His response was we dont live together because he dosent eat from women. It hurts that after 5 years he dosent even want to do that. He wants to say its because of another guy why i want to leave because i now have a problem with how he treats me.

[SophiaG]

3 hours ago, pinky said:

An update I broke up with him today  it hurts but after speaking to him about the situation 2 days ago. His response was we dont live together because he dosent eat from women. It hurts that after 5 years he dosent even want to do that. He wants to say its because of another guy why i want to leave because i now have a problem with how he treats me.

Congrats! Forget about him and his lame theories on why you left him, why he didn’t want to live together etc. I know it hurts right now but it’s a big step forward to a happier life. Spend some time with friends and treat/pamper yourself. You deserve better.

[smackie9]

You did the right thing....after a few weeks, the pain will start to subside...in a month you will feel a weight has lifted off your shoulders. It will just keep getting better. 

[pinky]

I feel terrible, crying not sure if I made the right decision. Why isnt he atleast trying to chase me or try to convince me to change my mind. It hurts.

[Batya33]

32 minutes ago, pinky said:

I feel terrible, crying not sure if I made the right decision. Why isnt he atleast trying to chase me or try to convince me to change my mind. It hurts.

Because he is a person who knows he doesn't want to convince anyone to be with them.  I married my ex fiancee and I wanted him back a month after we first broke up -he said no - I didn't try to convince him.  When we finally got back together almost 8 years later we both wanted to be together totally mutual.  He asked and I said YES. No chasing. If you have to chase then the person will be with you temporarily -the excitement of the chase and the drama -but it likely will not last. 

I am sorry you're upset.  Getting back together now ultimately would make you more upset and he is unlikely to change from a person who treats you so badly to one who is a good person to the core who also treats you well.  You know this.