rainbowsandroses Posted September 17 Share Posted September 17 Thank you for the update! As I often like to say and certainly applies here "things are often not what they appear to be." I'm glad my initial assessment was wrong and I really should know better. I mean if I were to share some of the things I've said and done and what my boyfriends have said and done, most would be utterly appalled! Iol But yet we worked it out and were both the better for it! Anyway good luck to both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
The Shark101 Posted September 17 Share Posted September 17 16 minutes ago, SophiaG said: Sounds great, OP! Nothing wrong with going slow. Be patient with each other and good luck! Everything is wrong going that slow, and patient has nothing to do with dating: it's working or it doesn't , you vibe or you not , the chemistry is there or not, the physical attraction there or not . No amount of patients and "talking" will change it. A woman know in the first 5 minutes of meeting the man if she's physically attracted to him, and in 1-3 dates to know if there's a future to this connection, short or long. Dragging this decision 6 dates and beyond is a waste of time for men and having another thirsty orbiter for a woman. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SophiaG Posted September 17 Share Posted September 17 16 minutes ago, The Shark101 said: 16 minutes ago, SophiaG said: Sounds great, OP! Nothing wrong with going slow. Be patient with each other and good luck! Everything is wrong going that slow, and patient has nothing to do with dating: it's working or it doesn't , you vibe or you not , the chemistry is there or not, the physical attraction there or not . No amount of patients and "talking" will change it. A woman know in the first 5 minutes of meeting the man if she's physically attracted to him, and in 1-3 dates to know if there's a future to this connection, short or long. Dragging this decision 6 dates and beyond is a waste of time for men and having another thirsty orbiter for a woman. See my post in this thread above. Not every woman operates the same way, neither does every man. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
yogacat Posted September 17 Share Posted September 17 Awe. I guess you missed her after all! 😜 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShySoul Posted September 22 Share Posted September 22 On 9/17/2024 at 10:07 AM, Elephiant said: We both agreed to actually go on further dates. I myself feel much better about this because we had a deep conversation about it and, judging on her verbal and non-verbal communication I think she does too. Talking and communicating really makes a difference, doesn't it? I hope things can continue to go well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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