NC

[Napoleon Bonaparte]

NC seems to be a big topic on here. There is the ongoing debate about how useful no call works. So my question is:

 

1. Has anyone here ever gotten back together after NC where the ex actually realized how much he/she meant to them during the period of silence

 

2. Has anyone actually gotten a guy/girl who they had sweated over for months or even years but were only seen as "just friends" by doing NC followed by being at first aloof or confident?

 

I have read about it happening and we've all seen the movies but has anyone known it to happen?

There is nobody I can't have that I am interested in at the moment.

I am more or less curious.

[UGH1607307217]

Hi there,

 

All I can say about NC is that it helped me regain my sanity after my breakup, I didnt do NC to win him back, or hope that he would miss me, I did it to heal. I was in a situation that I couldnt do NC for probably 7-8 months after the breakup and it was KILLING me on a daily basis. I have finally had about 2 months of NC (at least 98%), and I have felt so good.

 

I think for most of us here we attempt NC to heal, whether it has worked to bring people back together...youll just have to wait and see what other responses you receive to your post.

 

Have a great day!

 

UGH!

[reflectionlessmirror]

I am in early stages of NC and am enjoying it more than i thought i would. As the previous post said, think of it as a healing phase too, not jsut a wayto make your ex miss you. Find who you were before you were with your ex. i am returning to that girl and i love her! My ex really damped my spirit. He was very critical and i feel pretty darn good not communicating with him!

[iamonlyhuman]

1. Has anyone here ever gotten back together after NC where the ex actually realized how much he/she meant to them during the period of silence

 

We didn't get back together but the NC apart from helping me to heal did make him realize what he lost and what he truly loved...yesterday being an example.

 

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