confused_101 Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Hey! Well, I was just wondering....I have been with my bf for 6 months now. We used to have sex quite often, but recently he doesn't want to as much, eventhough I want to. He'll go a week without wanting to do it, and then na couple of days wanting to, and it just keeps repeating.....I know that he watches porn enough, but he seems to watch less then at 1st. Since I got tired of always waiting for him to want to do it, I have been watching porn and masturbating for the past week. I have guilty that I am doing so and not sharing this with my bf though. And now, eventhough he is in the mood, I am so used to him not wanting to, that I'm not in the mood either anymore. What would be the best solution here? thx! Link to comment
kenneth05 Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 how about seducing him??? great outfit, great music, wine, sexy talk, good meal... sex!!!! it's bound to work! Link to comment
7CardStud Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Agree with ^.... We are just dumb guys... we can't read minds . Link to comment
Mr Meh Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 I have been watching porn and masturbating for the past week Oh man! Just print this sentence out and hand it to him. It sounds maybe like you are (subconsciously?) turning the tables on him. A vicious circle, because by the time you feel like it, he won't and so on and so on. Link to comment
kenneth05 Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 mr meh is right!!!! he'll run into the bedroom and say, what have i done!!! let's go!!!! Link to comment
Mr Meh Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Glad you agree, I just got back from the washroom at work myself.. Link to comment
kenneth05 Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 I just got back from the washroom at work myself.. "over-sharing" ? Link to comment
dustinthewind Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 hahahahaha u better have washed your hands! Link to comment
kaboom Posted June 10, 2005 Share Posted June 10, 2005 Narh, sticky hands aren't usually a problem when its your OWN computer... However once a female friend borrowed my laptop and she started yelling when she found a pube while typing out her theory of knowledge essay... Link to comment
confused_101 Posted June 11, 2005 Author Share Posted June 11, 2005 Thanks for all ur replies! .... He did it again tonight though...He said that he was horny, but he still didnt want to...I tried what I could think of to get him to want to have sex, but I'm out of ideas now! Should I just give up?!? Link to comment
curbie Posted June 12, 2005 Share Posted June 12, 2005 Thanks for all ur replies! .... He did it again tonight though...He said that he was horny, but he still didnt want to...I tried what I could think of to get him to want to have sex, but I'm out of ideas now! Should I just give up?!? Wow...if he's horny and then turns you down...HE is the one with problems! I don't think I've ever became horny and turned down a woman for some good ole love making. Either he's gay or I unno...just afraid in some way. He's clean isn't he? As far as STD's...he might be careful and not wanting to pass off something?? I dunno...just taking wild guesses. You two use protection? Link to comment
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