cuddlebunny777 Posted September 19 Author Share Posted September 19 43 minutes ago, boltnrun said: If this is your worst problem your marriage is pretty good. Or, if your marriage is otherwise good why create a problem over something so trivial? It is not the worst thing no. I will make a post about it. Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted September 20 Share Posted September 20 Pick your battles. If you're quibbling about flowers, let him give you flowers and a card. It could be worse. He could give you nothing, not think nor care about you, ignore you and you can have something bigger to complain about. I'm not particularly fond of flowers but our next door neighbors always give me a bouquet of flowers if I pick up their postal mail and newspapers and bring in their trash bins to the side of their front yard on trash day. I do this whenever they're out of town, post-surgery and the like. I graciously thank them for the flowers. My husband gave me flowers and while they were beautiful, I finally told him that I prefer no flowers. 🥀Therefore, he knows what I like and at random, a nice gift, a purse or whatever I want throughout the year is a heck of a lot better than flowers IMHO. It's personal preference. Everyone is different. Appreciate the flowers and card because someday you'll miss it. Link to comment
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