how does it feel for you?

[holdback]

what if someone (of the opposite sex in your family) showed you your nude pictures that they found online?

how do you feel when you look at your own pics? disgusted/proud/angry?

[Big Stan]

I wouldn’t know because I’ve never posted nudes online. I would probably be horrified which is one huge reason why I haven’t posted nudes online. 

[holdback]

the pictures were not posted by you. they were posted by someone else, let's say your ex secretly took it and posted them online.

[MissCanuck]

I would be horrified if someone found nudes of me online, because I've never posted any such thing. I would be even more mortified if a family member stumbled across them. 

Are you talking about your creepy brother-in-law you mentioned in your other thread? 

[Big Stan]

1 minute ago, holdback said:

the pictures were not posted by you. they were posted by someone else, let's say your ex secretly took it and posted them online.

That’s revenge porn and it’s illegal. I’d call the cops about it. 

[Wiseman2]

4 minutes ago, holdback said:

 they were posted by someone else, let's say your ex secretly took it and posted them online.

Report it to the police. 

[holdback]

6 minutes ago, MissCanuck said:

I would be horrified if someone found nudes of me online, because I've never posted any such thing. I would be even more mortified if a family member stumbled across them. 

Are you talking about your creepy brother-in-law you mentioned in your other thread? 

he was the one who found them, not posted them. but yes related to the other thread

[MissCanuck]

You need to report both your ex and your brother-in-law to the police. 

Your ex illegally posted your pictures. And according to your other thread, your brother-in-law has also illegally recorded you in the shower without your consent. 

Both of these men are criminals. 

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, holdback said:

what if someone (of the opposite sex in your family) showed you your nude pictures that they found online?

How old are you? If you are under 18 this is an even bigger problem. 

[holdback]

7 hours ago, Wiseman2 said:

How old are you? If you are under 18 this is an even bigger problem. 

above 30

[Wiseman2]

3 hours ago, holdback said:

above 30

Hopefully you'll make arrangements to move out and live in your own place.

If your sister or family are turning a blind eye to this pervert installing hidden video equipment in the bathroom, it's time to move out.

Start now researching for affordable housing. House shares, roommates, studio apts, etc.  Evidently the family and your sister hasn't thrown him out or divorced him, so in effect they're condoning it. 

[smackie9]

I would feel embarrassed, angry and frightened. When sick people are involved in your life, who knows what else they are capable of.

I would eliminate any social media I have, but before I do that I would delete everyone off my friends list.