Einsam25 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 I’ve been married for over 10 years, together for 20 years total. I all of a sudden, this past week or so developed this fear that my husband wants to divorce me. I don’t know if I’m noticing micro changes or something but I just feel off, and my stomach is constantly in knots and I feel anxious. I have never felt this before so I won’t if my intuition is just trying to tell me something. if so, I’m very isolated in a different country than my home country and if we split he wont let me take the kids back to my home country. I love him so much still, but I wonder if he even feels the same anymore. we still talk and laugh, but life has been stagnant lately with the cold weather. I don’t know, maybe he’s bored of me? I always thought the day would come that would happen, but I never planned for it. I really don’t know what to do. talking to him about it is totally useless, he really doesn’t do those kinds of emotions, doesn’t comfort through tears, doesn’t reassure me about things. But not in a bad way, he’s loving and kind in other ways just talking about these things don’t work with him. Thanks for letting my get this out. I have to tell myself whatever is going to happen will happen, and to just continue being happy. But if he’s not happy, I don’t want to tie him down with me still. You know? thanks again Quote Link to comment
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