Wiseman2 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 7 hours ago, Amara7777 said: We’ve been together for a few months.. I don’t know how to help him. How long have you been together? Unfortunately you're at the stage when red flags and deal breakers appear and this is what you're noticing . You seem to not want to let go of the good parts of the relationship but the rosy glow is wearing off and your instincts are making you aware of hidden problems. Don't make the mistake of trying to fix, change or "help" him. That simply sets up a loop of codependence with cat-and-mouse games. He'll resent your insinuations, trying to control him and you'll resent the red flags you're noticing. You've only invested a few months and you may have to consider if you're compatible or not. It's unclear why you believe his muscle atrophy condition is part of the issue of hidden drinking. Did he claim he "needs" to drink because of it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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