account1122 Posted March 14, 2023 Share Posted March 14, 2023 Don't know whats going on. So Idk what this girl is doing. We aren't really friends, but maybe she thinks we are Idk. We use to joke around with one another, but since she grew distant. I tried asking her to hang, she didn't respond. So I jsut gave up on her and broke of all contact. Not wishing happy birthday or anything.... I eventually did wish her happy birthday. ... I then had a SB party at my home and didn't invite her. She eventually texted me a few days later saying she was upset i didn't invite her. I treid talking to her over text and she in essence said 'yeah forgot about what i said, you do what you want i take it back.' I asked her 'would u be happy if I invited you?' I just wanted to know what she said and she said 'I mean i only want things professional between us....' I mean i tried then inviting her twice, Second time was to a party at my home and she gave the excuse that she had to get ready for work the next day. Thats bs because she went out the previous day for a small event.... I mean on one hand, shes upset because i didn't invite her. Then I confront her and she takes it back. Then I try asking her to hang twice and she Both said she was busy. Why is she doing this? She says she wants things professional, but doesn't act. Why doesn't she just say, 'stop texting me, we aren't hanging out period.' Doesn't a professional relationship mean not to interact with me via text or anything.. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 14, 2023 Share Posted March 14, 2023 Why do you keep starting new threads asking this exact same question? Several people have already thoughtfully given you advice. Link to comment
account1122 Posted March 14, 2023 Author Share Posted March 14, 2023 17 minutes ago, boltnrun said: Why do you keep starting new threads asking this exact same question? Several people have already thoughtfully given you advice. because i want different perspectives. Link to comment
MissCanuck Posted March 14, 2023 Share Posted March 14, 2023 It's against forum rules to post duplicate threads, OP. There's no point in doing so, as moderators will delete or merge them. Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted March 14, 2023 Share Posted March 14, 2023 18 minutes ago, account1122 said: . She even complained to my boss about me, saying that I was 'bossy' As soon as a female coworker complains about you to a higher up, it's time to step far away, cease any non-work related communication and act polite and professional at all times. Protect your job and stop pondering the wherefores and whys about her. Link to comment
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