GoodyGoody Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 A guy that I was briefly dating approx 10 years ago has got back in touch with me. I was hacked and my Instagram account was deleted a couple of years ago and a few months back I finally created a new account linked to my phone number. Within a couple of hours of my profile going up he was my first follower. He then text messaged me a few weeks later apologized for how he ended things(he didn’t need to as it really wasn’t that bad but was sweet nonetheless) and asked if I wanted to go for a drink with him, even suggested we go to the place we first met. He remembered way more about our time together than I did. We went for drinks and things were great apart from the fact I was a nervous wreck. I don’t think anyone has made me that nervous in a long time. The attraction was still there and he is still just as handsome if not more so than 10 years ago. We got along really well and was reminded of how much we have in common. The end of the date came and he kept doing this thing where it looked as though he wanted me to say something(Due to some bad life decisions I have decided to at least go on a few dates before putting out). I assumed this was him wanting me to invite me back to my place(I did this the first time). I had got really nervous again and I blurted out “I would invite you back to my place but I don’t do that anymore unless things progress further”. I don’t know why I said it that way and I don’t know if I confused the hell out of him or pushed him away. We hugged, I told him I’d love to catch up again soon. I can’t remember exactly what he said in response but it sounded enthusiastic and then we had to walk the same direction to our cars and it was a bit weird. That was a little over a week ago and I haven’t heard from him since. I was going to message him but then realized I’m sick of being the chaser, he is the one that dumped me the first time around so he is the one that can put in the effort. After him apologizing about the way he ended things I don’t think he’s ghosted me and when we first decided on the day we were going to catch up I didn’t hear from him again until I messaged him on the day of(5 days later) to confirm and he apologized for his slack response. All this stuff and another small thing are putting me off by all of it but I would mind catching up with him one last time just to be sure. Plus I’m not sure if what I said at the end of the date may have come across way differently than I intended. Should I message him and invite him out? Quote Link to comment
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