Should I go over her house with her and her best friend?

[NeedHelpBruhhh]

M21, met this F20 about 3 weeks ago. We had two 1 on 1 dates so far, and the second one she came and slept over my house. We already kissed/hugged etc. We were supposed to have a third one yesterday that was going to be dinner then I stay over her house but she has a health problem and got super sick out of the blue so we canceled the third date. 

She's fine now so I tried rescheduling to either today or tomorrow and tomorrow she's busy but on tuesdays she has a tradition where her and her best friend always hang out but she invited me and said I'm more than welcome to come over and hang out with them tonight. 

So what's this mean, should I go? Am I being friendzoned? I bought her flowers yesterday for the date since it was the day before Valentine's day, and since it never happened and I still have the flowers should I bring them tonight? 

[smackie9]

If it were me I would decline. Nothing worse that being a third wheel in the hen house. Why not bring a not too bad looking buddy to join you to even things out. 

[Betterwithout]

gonna rewrite what I said in your last post

https://www.enotalone.com/topic/456143-did-the-second-date-go-well-m21-f20/#comment-5784566

"keep things light and fun. "

Flowers seem a bit needy at this stage.  Also, how will the other girl feel?
If you are not in the friend zone already, it's likely you will be showing up with flowers.

 

[kctiger]

Nope. I would not go on a third date to third wheel it with her best friend. Absolutely not. Politely decline and set up another more traditional date. It's actually somewhat odd she'd ask you to hang with her and her best friend on their traditional date night. Seems like it would feel intrusive to her friend. 

[Tinydance]

I don't think you should go because I think it would probably make the friend feel awkward. Especially if you brought flowers and her friend had nobody on Valentine's Day. She probably wouldn't want that in her face lol I think potentially you are being friend zoned. But to find out for sure I think you should ask the girl out on another date just you and her.

[Wiseman2]

On 2/14/2023 at 3:15 PM, NeedHelpBruhhh said:

 she's busy but on tuesdays . but she invited me and said I'm more than welcome to come over and hang out with them tonight. 

Try to relax a bit. If she has other plans, simply reschedule for the weekend or next available time. Don't hang around as a third wheel.

[JTCW]

I agree with the others, don't go. 

Let them have their traditions.