BIG FAT Chicken that really needs advice

[Stork]

A guy told my workmate to give me a big kiss from him. We had a very brief thing a few months ago but we didnt communicate well so I called it off 'cause I couldnt read how he felt about me. Things got a bit strange after that- ignoring each other then talking etc. We havent spoke for a few months 'cause he moved out of the area.

So is this kiss thing a hint for me to call him? And if I dont call will he think I dont like him? He cant call me cause I've changed my number but if he really wanted he could get it from my workmate. I still dig the guy totally but it kinda seems easier not 2 ring him. Guess I'm a big chicken when it comes to someone I really like- Im so not used to being in this position- and I was just starting to get over him when this happened. I havent even been able to date anyone else until a few weeks ago 'cause I still really liked him! Guys would u say this kiss thing about someone u didnt like?

[annie24]

Hi - How about this: Call him and leave a message when you know that he's at work. Just be like, "hi - just wanted to say hi and catch up." Make it sound light. If he calls you back, see how he acts towards you. Good luck!

[Stork]

That would be a great idea Annie but he's only got a mobile and he keeps it on him all the time. I dont think it would ever go through to message bank

[DN]

send a message back through this other guy that if your ex wants to kiss you he'd better ask nicely - in person.

[porcupine7578]

Call him - you have new number, so he might not pick up so then you leave a msg. If he picks up, then just be really casual. Couldn't hurt.

[wynterose]

I agree with DN... send him back a message the same way he sent one to you