DairyJester Posted February 2 Share Posted February 2 We have sex every day. And while we both initiate equally, the sex we have always comes out of my intitiations when the mood strikes for me, because I usually turn him down when he does. I'm incredibly attracted to him, so the only reason I turn him down in those moments is because I'm tired/distracted/bloated/gotta poop, or just not feeling it in that moment. For one, it's also a big mental shift for me. I could be laying on the bed, scrolling on my phone, and he will lay behind me and eventually start kissing my neck, feeling up my chest. On one hand, I know if we have sex, it's going to be fire. On the other, sex was far from my mind in that moment, so I just want to stay on my phone. But I know it's not good for our relationship to keep rejecting his advances, even if he "gets" sex at the end of the day. How do I give into his initiations at sex more? Quote Link to comment
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