Jimmy ape Posted January 28 Share Posted January 28 We have not met yet, but I feel like I do love her. We have had several fights and Ive been blocked and unblocked several times. This time I blocked her, then she tried to call me 4 times on my phone, then sent me a text wishing me a happy life. I didnt respond and the next day I saw that she had blocked me on everything. I think this time it was my fault as the cause of the fight was her telling me I need to get a job (despite the fact I have several ways to make money aside from working). I told her I wasnt opposed to it, and she gave me an ultimatum that she will give me a month to find a job. Thats when I flipped out and cussed her out and gave her the middle finger, which I totally regret now. It started a massive fight and a subsequent shouting match and I am now blocked. She has some good qualities but she also has a lot of personality problems which I will list below. I am genuinely needing of some advice here as far as whether or not I should try to fix this situation. For the record she plays a lot of mind games and if history is any indication she will likely unblock or contact me at some point. When she is not PMS'ing she is a normal caring, reasonable intelligent girl. I have wondered if she is bipolar as when that time of the month comes around she becomes a demonic person straight from hell. Its honestly crazy and disturbing. This last time she tried hard, even minimized our interaction but towards the end she exploded again. has blocked and unblocked me on numerous occasions always uses the fact that she is a girl as as justification for everything and anything once stated we have to move to a place that she likes and I dislike is manipulative and plays mind games calls my sister mentally il and ugly all the time despite never having met her called me ugly called my mom a narcissist and crazy didnt buy me a gift on my birthday then complained I only bought her flowers and coffee on hers and also told me she doesnt like me on my birthday, claimed she didnt buy the gift because she was going to break up with me, but didnt lies all the time, cant trust her incredibly entitled mean at times unstable insults my family regularly despite not ever having met them and claims she knows them said she found someone to date when we had a fight and that she could find 1000 guys better than me doesnt seem to care about me or my feelings at times asked for an expensive ring wanted me to take down my rice jersey off the wall (said my house looks like a stadium) has been diagnosed as a masochist may be bipolar referred to herself as "arrogant to the point of being mentally ill" makes racist remarks and called asians subhuman is supported by her mother, cant find a job and wants someone to take care of her cant hold a job blocked me once for correcting her grammar sent me a letter once saying she will never forgive me with a stupid picture of herself then blew up my phone hours later doesnt have a car changes her mind all the time, talks about moving to another country, and studying medical blah blah when she gets her period she gets crazy mimics me at times like a little kid she loves to eat and is a bit overweight due to a birth defect is unable to have kids comes across as controlling at times she reactivated her dating profile months ago when we were still "dating" we were talking for over a year and never met, she keeps pushing it back and making strange excuses said that one day we should have sex with other people at a point in the future when we have been "connected on a soul level" has stated she doesnt like me and hates me several times when angry asked me if when we meet I would want to have sex ( I wasnt sure how to interpret this question) calls me stingy all the time despite the fact Ive bought her gifts and flowers half a dozen times and weve never met holds grudges easily projects all the time and has little self awareness says she screamed at her doctors when she had her breast reduction surgery insists that my mom call her or else she will never forgive me this time Thank you in advance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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