P33 Posted January 18 Share Posted January 18 I recently posted about a fledgling relationship started a month ago I’m 50 and she’s 38. Initially she was texting a lot more, she has PTSD and has told me sometimes she just wants to be alone and I know for a fact she’s taking antidepressants. We’re now spending the entire weekends together in front of her 10 year old son. We sometimes make loose plans and she won’t necessarily stick to these. On Sunday I asked when she wanted to see me again and she said Wednesday (today), for the first time ever I never contacted her again and left it until this morning. I text and asked if she still wanted to see me, no response. In fact she still hasn’t responded 7 hours later, now on the one hand I have to consider her issues on the other I find this all baffling and quite honestly anxiety inducing and wonder if she’s playing games with me. Friends have suggested not contacting again and waiting, only issue is we have supposed plans for Friday when I have the day off and we’re going for lunch which will take the whole day. She’s made it clear before she really likes me and wants to keep seeing me and the same for me, but I just can’t help wondering what is going on and if she IS playing games. This has had me in real honest to God turmoil recently. Please advise. Thanks Quote Link to comment
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