Cherylyn Posted January 17 Share Posted January 17 Hello ENotAloners! What would you do if a friend, relative or whomever did the following to you: Forwarded your texts, messages and emails without your permission and unbeknownst to you to mutual people in your life with the intent of deliberately causing discord and mayhem between you, someone in your household, mutual friends or family. In other words, deliberately pulling others into the fray and complicating the dynamic grotesquely. And, these people are suddenly angry at you because they're involved by default. Leaving messages on your landline's answering machine and directly saying that whoever is listening to this voice mail or answering machine, needs to tell you that YOU are mentally ill. This is called 'stirring the pot' and 'creating a hornet's nest' with people in your life. The perpetrator deflects attention away from them and onto you so you're left with a humiliating hot mess. The perpetrator deliberately attempts to create turmoil in your household or with other mutual people whom you and the perpetrator know. This perpetrator fights dirty and doesn't play by the rules. It's very sneaky and underhanded to use this wicked strategy. Has this ever happened to you and if so, what did you do? Or, what would you do? Thank you much ENotAloners. Quote Link to comment
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