Geroge Bensen Posted January 10 Share Posted January 10 Been dating my GF for 3 years now, I am M she is F. Maybe I have answered my own question but I was wondering if anyone else has experienced anything similar and if they over come it or broke up? So our relationship has been up and down, mainly due to her insecurities and personal issues which made dating hard when we first got together. We have similarities in what we do: gym, music, films/tv, places we like to go/eat which is what held us together BUT I can't help think that there are better options for me. Recently, I started to not find her sexually attractive, I find it hard to think of her in that way and when she touches me, I feel like it's a friend even when we have sex it feels like I am forcing my self to preform. I do love her, when we've had a break I miss her a-lot, but I think more as a friend not as a desired partner. I get attention from other girls when I am out, or at work and can't help but feel attracted to other females, it's like I need that excitement as well. My GF is kinky she will dress up etc and I can find her attractive, but I don't know if it will pass or this is just how our relationship will be now. For the people that have been in longer term relationships is this normal? Can it pass? Or once you see the person in this way is it hard to come back from? It has been this was for a while now, I can't see a long term future living like this as I want to want to jump my partners bones as I have a high sex drive, I want to find them super attractive like I do other females but not sure if this just happens after a while? Any advice is much appreciated George Quote Link to comment
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