JDMxTeGrA101 Posted January 5 Share Posted January 5 My gf and I purchased a house last year and her friend from another state wanted to move to where we are. She told her she could stay with us since we have two vacant room downstairs. So the house is a shared kitchen. They've been here since November 2022. Its a mom and her 13 year old spoiled daughter. Anyways I had no problem with them staying at all but after 3 months of them living here, I'm super annoyed and want them out. My gf is her friend and even my gf is annoyed with her to the point where they dont even talk anymore and they used to be really close. So our mortgage is about 4300 per month and the tenants pay 1800 which is more than good for a 2 bedroom with their own floor and every utilities/wifi included as the one bedroom apartments in our area go from 2200-2900. My gf and I has been discussing this already and hope they get the clue that we want them out already. Here's what its been over the span of 3 months: -The spoiled daughter has no manners at all (She would just come upstairs, not acknowledge anyone and especially when we had visitors, she took the whole cupcake box for her one time which was for guests) -Spoiled daughter leaves the lights on downstairs even when not in use (The bathroom especially) My gf and I always have to turn it off. If we didn't turn it off, the bathroom light would be on all day and night till the mom is back from work. -In the span of 3 months, the mom has been using our supplies (Water, olive oil, rice,tupperware) and she hasn't bought her own. Its gotten so bad to the point where we leave our cases of water in our bedroom and not in the fridge since they would rather take our water than use the tap water from the fridge. My gf also purchased blankets for guests whenever we have them sleepover and her friend ended up taking them for her use and her daughter's use) -The mom cleans her dishes but always leave residue on the sink like leftover rice etc.. (My gf already showed her how to clean mess like that) -The mom hasn't once cleaned downstairs and their bathroom is super filthy. We were so embarrassed when we had visitors sleepover and use the restroom downstairs cause they said it was so dirty and clogged so we had to get a plumber to fix it. -The spoiled daughter would annoy the *** out of me cause she would order doordash delivery 3-4x a day while her mom is at work and we would get constant doorbells from these delivery guys. Also have to mention, she doesn't even tip them. (Would hate it if our house got targeted) Here's the worst part. The mom had her cousin and the wife sleepover three times in the span of 3 months. The first time was 2 nights, the second time was 3 nights, and the last time was last week for 4 nights. She only asked my gf if they could stay and the last time my gf told her to ask me if it was ok for them to sleep over as Im the owner of the house also. Guess what? She never asked me if it was ok and she let them sleep over anyway. So these overnight guests cooked in our house, used our own supplies, dishes, kitchenware etc. They washed them but couldn't even put any of them back where they belong? And who ended up putting it back? Of course I did. The times they stay over at our place, they would do their laundry aswell. My gf complained to me about all of this and we just vent it to each other but not to her friend. Anyways my gf doesn't want to kick them out yet but she's hoping her friend started looking for another place and move out within the next few months since she senses that they dont want to be her anymore and I sure hope they do find a place soon. Any other advices from here? Quote Link to comment
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