Was I too passive?

[Stargazer2]

Hi Goddess, I'm sorry that this happened to you.   I hope that your former husband didn't say things about you to make these former mutual friends turn away from you.   Or maybe they just felt uncomfortable now that you're divorced and they somehow felt it would be "weird" if your husband found out you were still maintaining a friendship with them, even if he was doing absolutely nothing to steer them away from you - who knows what was going on in these women's minds, so to heck with them I say!

But no, I don't think  you were too passive, they were clearly just ghosting you, not your fault, and there's no point pushing the issue with them IMO, and I think it's smart that you've just moved on.

I'm glad you have such a fulfilling hobby and part-time career it sounds like, that's great!