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Really conflicted on life's next steps. Any advice?


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30 minutes ago, Batya33 said:

I think there's a huge difference between accepting not 'having it all" which I've found most do accept - and accepting not having what you have decided is essential to your life goals.

Right I do agree on his unfulfilled needs being a core value.  

But he was talking about having it all meaning a wife and affair partner - a kind of irrational utopia that just doesn't exist if you know what I mean.  So I likened it to if I wanted to homeschool and work full-time, and, "have it all."  

But I get it... his need of a fulfilling sex life it sounds like, among maybe other things going on, is something he shouldn't compromise on, but did, and now wants out.

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3 hours ago, maritalbliss86 said:

Right I do agree on his unfulfilled needs being a core value.  

But he was talking about having it all meaning a wife and affair partner - a kind of irrational utopia that just doesn't exist if you know what I mean.  So I likened it to if I wanted to homeschool and work full-time, and, "have it all."  

But I get it... his need of a fulfilling sex life it sounds like, among maybe other things going on, is something he shouldn't compromise on, but did, and now wants out.

I think being married and having an affair partner means you have nothing as opposed to all. 

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