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So Those of you who saw my last two questions probably already know my relationship and how it went down, so the same guy that I wanted to date, my ex blackmailed me, he actually did it this time. My ex showed him a video of me actually mutiple videos. Yesterday the dude texted me saying how i'm getting blocked because my ex bf showing him those videos, and now the dude won't even listen to me, He thinks i'm a hoe thanks to my ex. My ex said to me this morning "i'm going to show all my friends and we are going to roast you". He a sick bastard and won't stop and its pissing me off at this point, please don't say block because block does nothing if he has pictures of me, and i know I was stupid to trust him with them. I just so sick of him and Idk what to do every freaking day he has something on me, It so unfair because the dude wouldn't even listen to because apprently he and my ex are best friends now...

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Would you really want to date a guy that would be best friends with your ex?  As far as that guy goes you are probably better off.

 It sounds like you need to look into the legality of your ex showing people pictures and videos of you. Many states have harassment laws on the books just for people like him. I know it would be embarrassing to go talk to the police but I think that is your best choice.  I know you don't need a place to live but a women's shelter might be a great place to get some advice as well as they are very experienced in dealing with abusive men.

My guess is your ex would pee his pants if the cops showed up at his place.

Hopefully you won't be lectured to much for trusting him and letting him take video of you, it was a mistake and you learned from it.  Now  is the time to go on the offensive and get some real help.

 

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47 minutes ago, lucy said:

My ex said to me this morning "i'm going to show all my friends and we are going to roast you". 

How old are you? Talk to a trusted adult about this. Especially a parent and teacher. You are being bullied and revenge porn especially a minor is a crime. You need to ask your parents to take you to the police and report it. Complaining about him and REFUSING to block him will not help you. Talk to an adult and tell the police he is distributing child pornography.

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8 minutes ago, Wiseman2 said:

How old are you? Talk to a trusted adult about this. Especially a parent and teacher. You are being bullied and revenge porn especially a minor is a crime. You need to ask your parents to take you to the police and report it. Complaining about him and REFUSING to block him will not help you. Talk to an adult and tell the police he is distributing child pornography.

I'm going to be 16 in a few weeks, and I'm scared to because he holds so much power of me at times, but I think Ima do that report.

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Just now, lucy said:

I'm going to be 16 in a few weeks, and I'm scared to because he holds so much power of me at times, but I think Ima do that report.

You need to talk to an adult (whoever teacher, parent etc.) about distributing pornography and the bullying. Yes report it to the police .

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Please report him to the police. You're 15 years old which means you're a child. What he's doing is illegal.

Don't wait on this or take time to "think about it". Do it today so this boy will be made to stop what he's doing.

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He is in possession of child pornography and is showing it to others.  That is jail time and he could have to register as a sex offender the rest of his life.

 Making the call to the police may be difficult but once done you will feel like you have your life back. 

Can you speak to your parents about this?  Do you have an older sibling?

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