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So I broke up with my gf a month ago and I found someone else been frequenting seeing eachother. my ex found out and messaged the new girl stirring things because she’s still in love with me! I’ve moved on though and now the new girl was crying and is hurt and says I’ll have to prove it and make effort big time for her. My intention is to start from fresh with the new girl and put my ex behind! I just need some advise on how I should go on about the girl ? Like how can I show her there won’t be an incident like this happen again ? She blocked me on Instagram but been messaging she’s having doubts which Is valid but I know I messed up and would like to move things forward with her and get her trust back. Morning messages, a long paragraph message at night etc Any advise would be really appreciated thanks ‘

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5 hours ago, Jaypablo1992 said:

My intention is to start from fresh with the new girl

How do you start fresh when you've only been dating a month? 

5 hours ago, Jaypablo1992 said:

I know I messed up

I don't understand this. How did you mess up? Your ex did, not you. You weren't the one stirring the pot. Unless you were hiding something from the new girl? 

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8 hours ago, Jaypablo1992 said:

. my ex found out and messaged the new girl.

How does your ex have her contact info and how does your ex know all about the fact that you're dating her?

Step away from this. You have too much unfinished business if your ex is chatting with people you're dating now.

She was right to block you because no one wants to be in the crossfire between you and your ex GF.

 

 

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Difficult to know what to suggest until you tell us how your ex found out and how she was able to message your new girl. My guess is probably from instagram. Perhaps you were indiscreet in posting a photo of you and your new girl together or were commenting on each others' photos. 

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Sorry but things are pretty much done between you and new girl. Better get you stuff in order before dating someone new. I suggest dating/hooking up casually instead of any committed relationship. It's way too soon for that.

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I agree,, it wasn't you who did anything.

You've only been involved a very short time.

And yeah, if someone is reacting by blocking me because of something like this, I'd just leave all alone!

As for the ex .. is it maybe too soon to be out there dating again already?  Do you & the ex need some more time to 'cool off' and heal/recover from your own BU?

Think on all of this.... and make sure you ARE done.  No more contact, no more 'feelings'.. nothing anymore, before you go out dating - cause yeah, sounds like she's still not done & over this with you. ( no more contact, no games.. let her see you ARE done).

 

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