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have a relotionship 6 years long she cheated after which i told her to choose ... she choose him not to date but to "continue whatever they had " which was a one time *** in the woods . therte was nothing before or even after . the dude she choose had ended up blocking her rufusing all contact and just flat out not wanting ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER she sience came and asked for me to take her back what are your thoughts

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I'd say no thanks.  She made her choice.  That he ended up not choosing her is irrelevant.  

The only way I would if I were you is if she can tell you:

Why it happened.

How she knows it will not happen again.

What she would promise to do if it did (something she would hate to do -like give $1,000 to a charity or political party she despises).  

If the answer to number one is "I don't know" or she blames you in some way I'd be done.  Or if she would still be with him if he wanted to be with her I'd be done.

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After demoting you to second choice/sloppy seconds, this in itself is likely to give her a free ticket to continue sampling the goods. (imo).  

Since trust is the glue that holds a relationship together, very few are able to survive the long term.  As the sayin goes, the best predictor of future behavior, is past behavior.

Choose wisely.

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Just now, goddess said:

Don't be a doormat.  Muster up some self respect and forget her

I agree.  I mean -I said maybe there was a way to reconcile but I cannot see her responding to the questions I posed with anything helpful.  She would still be having sex with him if he was willing.  

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