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I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and hes been abusive and sniffs cocaine he says he is sober now but I am so afraid of being hurt by him again. I had a whole paragraph ready to send on here but I just feel like I wouldn't be heard and it would just be ignored. This relationship has made me so suicidal I don't know what to do anymore. I just want to be happy but I have spent the last two years putting his needs over mine and I have got nothing out of it but me just broken second guessing everything about myself.

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I have told him a lot of times the relationship isn't working anymore I live with my parents at the moment and he always comes outside and causes a lot of problems especially when hes sniffed. He went away in August to rehab and ended up cheating on me. So many reasons to walk away and he threatens me and I feel like I have nothing to do he says a restraining order wouldn't stop him from getting to me. 

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7 minutes ago, Annonymousgirl123 said:

he always comes outside and causes a lot of problems especially when hes sniffed. He went away in August to rehab and ended up cheating on me. he says a restraining order wouldn't stop him from getting to me. 

Sorry this is happening. Take care of your physical and mental health.

A restraining order means if he comes near you or your parents home, he gets arrested. Idiots who blow crap up their noses don't know what they're talking about.

You need to protect your parents from a dangerous drug addict.

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You cant fix him, he has to hit rock bottom first and then want to change. He doesn't sound like he's there yet.

Get that restraining order and explain it to him.  Then be prepared to call the cps if he comes to your house.  I had an alcoholic friend who I had to remove from my life as he brought me down so badly, and of course I cant help him.  Just like you cant help this guy.

Dont put up with this nonsense, you are ruining your life.


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Ya you need to get a restraining order and so do your parents. If you go hide out at a relatives place for awhile and he shows up at your parents, he still can go to jail. Call the police and arrange them.

Ya when he has had time in the pokie he will think twice about bothering you.

I also suggest surveillance cameras and a big mean dog.

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