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How can I ask a girl out if I don't know where to find her


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There is a girl in my town that I am interested in so much, I want to ask her out.
But the problem is that it's hard for me to find a place to meet her (I saw her about a week ago, and I did not have the opportunity to talk to her).
And I have been struggling to find a way to meet her again.

What I have is two things:
* I found her on Instagram (By coincidence).
* I know which university she studies in - unfortunately, I don't study there.

What is the best way to reach her out if she doesn't know me?

Keep looking for a way to create a real-life interaction (how can I do that?)
Or follow her on Instagram and text her there?

How should the first interaction be?
Instagram, or real-life?

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23 minutes ago, Edan said:

I saw her about a week ago, and I did not have the opportunity to talk to her.
Instagram, or real-life?

Online or in life stalking is generally considered creepy. You don't know her at all so trying to pick her up isn't a good idea.

Is this the same girl?:

 

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How did you find out who she is? 

That's your starting point for finding ways you can be introduced to her or socialize with some mutual friends over time.

Key word is 't.i.m.e.' because if you try to rush this, you'll come off as creepy rather than desirable.

Be patient, and learn ways to get to know her before acting out, or you'll blow it.

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