Anonymous Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Sometimes it gets the best of me and I find it very hard to not compare. Advice? I'm seeing a really lovely guy atm and can't complain. However, whenever he follows someone mildly attractive I do get a bit jealous and find myself comparing. Any tips? Link to comment
Anonymous Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 13 minutes ago, Guest Anonymous said: whenever he follows someone mildly attractive I do get a bit jealous and find myself comparing. Any tips? How long have you been dating? Are you exclusive? How old is he? You don't seem secure in this situation. You could stop stalking his social media. However, this is about you. Playing mirror mirror on the wall is a losing battle. Improve your self respect through self improvement. Link to comment
Andrina Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Who are these women? Strangers? Co-workers? A harem of female friends? Is this voyeurism and a hobby of his to search for attractive women to follow, or is this a handful of females that he's known through normal everyday life like through work or a hobby? Link to comment
smackie9 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Find a new BF. Seriously, this is his pastime, a focus. Find a guy that has a different hobby. 1 Link to comment
boltnrun Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Is this the guy who tells you about his life and you're asking if it's a "sign" of more commitment? Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 This is common. Kinda like an ego boost. Does it mean much? Usually not. There's tons of good lookin gals out there 😉 . How well do you know him? Is he just one big flirt? If so, them maybe is time to take a step back & reconsider who you're truly involved with. Otherwise, this is on you and your own insecurity to deal with. If he's honest & real but you're overtaken by your own jealousy, that will cause issue's, and end up too much stress & one huge headache. You don't want/need that. 1 Link to comment
Cherylyn Posted December 2, 2021 Share Posted December 2, 2021 Develop your self confidence because nothing is more attractive than self confidence, high self esteem, strong financial independence, health, fitness and being your own person. After that, you won't feel insecure because you're the draw. Don't care what he does or what other people do. Concentrate on yourself and attracting him and others onto you requires no effort on your part whatsoever. It's automatic. Link to comment
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