IntrovertedLover Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 I've met this boy, lets call him Dylan, around a year ago through a mutual friend. Dylan usually stares at me and smiles, whenever I catch him staring he doesn't look away which confuses me at times. I go to the pool occasionally and Dylan is usually there. Whenever he swims, he usually does these impressive stunts and I'm conflicted as to whether it's normal or if he's doing it intentionally. Whenever I sit somewhere, he sits closer to me. I have to admit, I have this stoic, apathetic personality because I'm shy around him that makes me look like idgaf about anything. Do you think I should stare back and smile next time I see him? If in the case he does like me, he seems shy and I'm shy as well. I honestly don't know how to go about the whole thing, also if it helps I just talked to him once and he said that I have a really soft and quiet voice ^^ Quote Link to comment
Wiseman2 Posted September 1, 2021 Share Posted September 1, 2021 1 hour ago, IntrovertedLover said: I have this stoic, apathetic personality because I'm shy around him that makes me look like idgaf about anything. Yes. Learn appropriate social skills. Stop stalking staring or acting creepy. Smile and be polite and friendly to people. Don't be stuck up or snobby. Quote Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted September 2, 2021 Share Posted September 2, 2021 You only have to smile and say hello. Ask him how are things going. You said that you are both shy so take this opportunity to come out of your shell and strike up some conversation. It doesn't have to be complicated. Keep it simple and see what he says. Quote Link to comment
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