Getting back with my ex-girlfriend.

[Ocam]

Hello> I  have a question if anyone can help me with some advice. I want to get back with my ex-girlfriend and she wants that, but we haven't seen each other in 1 an a half year. My question is: Is it okay for our first date, after the breakup, to invite her at my house? I do not want her to think that I only want sex. Of course I also want sex, but I am emotionally involved in the relationship with her. What do you think? Have you had a similar experience? Thanks.

[MissCanuck]

Take her on a proper date, outside your house. 

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, Ocam said:

Is it okay for our first date, after the breakup, to invite her at my house? Of course I also want sex

What was the breakup about? What inspired you to contact her after 1,5 years? Are either of you recently out of a relationship?

Meet to talk. See how that goes first rather than focusing on hooking up and specifically creating that environment.

[SooSad33]

Yes, I agree with above.. Take this all slowly.

You  two split up for reason's.  Do you know if all of that has been resolved?

Meet up with little 'expectation', more to catch up & see how you two react now.

 

[Rose Mosse]

2 hours ago, Ocam said:

Hello> I  have a question if anyone can help me with some advice. I want to get back with my ex-girlfriend and she wants that, but we haven't seen each other in 1 an a half year. My question is: Is it okay for our first date, after the breakup, to invite her at my house? I do not want her to think that I only want sex. Of course I also want sex, but I am emotionally involved in the relationship with her. What do you think? Have you had a similar experience? Thanks.

It’s probably too fast and would seem inappropriate. If you have doubts, don’t do it. 

[Ocam]

1 hour ago, Wiseman2 said:

What was the breakup about? What inspired you to contact her after 1,5 years? Are either of you recently out of a relationship?

Meet to talk. See how that goes first rather than focusing on hooking up and specifically creating that environment.

She said that she was not ready for a relation. I think the reason was that i was too much into her like not giving her space. But after 1 month she tried to contact me for 1 year and half.( i blocked her on all social media Except Facebook). And 1 week a go i wanted to give It a try and fix the realtionship. And Yeah the reason that i want to try again is because she tried to contact me for a year and a half, every 3 weeks. That is Some real perseverance for me.