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Last night I caught my boyfriend, of 7 years, up at 1:30 am having phone sex with someone. He claimed it was a paid phone sex worker and it was a free trial. ***?! I understand porn whatever I don’t care but I felt like that was crossing the line.  I felt like it was cheating. Not to mention that a about 2 years ago I caught him sexting and sending dirty pictures on Snapchat. The girl messaged me on Facebook and told me about it. She said they met on tinder and then exchanged Snapchat’s. That was two years ago and I thought we got over it but then the phone sex thing happened last night. Is that cheating?what should I do? 

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3 minutes ago, COgirl said:

Last night I caught my boyfriend, of 7 years, up at 1:30 am having phone sex with someone.

It seems like you wish to stay together so you want to believe him.   Do you live together? can you afford your own place or move back home?

You'll never know how far he has taken it. If he's telling you phone sex is a "free trail", surely  however many times he's cheating with in-person sex is not something he's going to volunteer.

First see a physician to test for STDs. Then reflect if this is someone you want to continue with whether it's camsex, phone sex, cheating, etc. This is not occasional benign masturbating to porn. 

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Well, seems like HE has some real issue's and is seeking his thrill elsewhere & has been since 2 yrs ago 😕 

What do you think you should do?  Wouldn't it have been more normal to be with YOU at 2 am?

Say enough and leave him to continue seeking his thrills his own way!

 

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This sounds like a "Fool me once/Fool me twice sort of situation.  Without having to face any consequences he does, and will pull this c**p again and again.

Do you see a future with this guy?   He's clearly demonstrated what he's all about, therefore it's time to do some thinking.

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It is cheating.   Are you going to wait for a third time?   He has already shown you how much he values you and the relationship, how much do you value yourself?

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11 hours ago, COgirl said:

about 2 years ago I caught him sexting and sending dirty pictures on Snapchat. The girl messaged me on Facebook and told me about it. She said they met on tinder and then exchanged Snapchat’s.

I would have dumped him then and there. 

He hasn't changed and still doesn't respect you. He's not at all invested in this relationship. Sticking around would be very foolish at this point. 

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