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My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and he is constantly touching and squeezing my backside nonstop which I’ve told him numerous times that I’m not a fan of but he continues to do so and does not care that it’s something I don’t like. It is very frustrating and I don’t know what to do about it

 

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At this point it's basically the same as bullying or harassment whatever you want to call it.  For example my son hates to be tickled -always has - he even dislikes more than a hint of teasing to be tickled (although I know his exact boundary so he does like a little teasing!) - I know of adults who think children exist to be tickled and it's so disrespectful.  I remind him when we're horsing around that I will never tickle him and he can tickle me.  This is the same thing - when two people care for each other they respect each other's wishes about their bodies - everyone gets a pass for something like that - especially if the person didn't express it clearly or firmly.  After that it's rude.  Multiple times? Harassment and gross.  I'd end it. 

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2 hours ago, Jamie lynn said:

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 months and he is constantly touching and squeezing my backside

End it asap. After 20 weeks dating there's no reason to tolerate groping and disrespect. Once you are rid of a clown like this, you can date decent respectable men.

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