O.F. Hanson Posted April 1, 2021 Share Posted April 1, 2021 Hey! I am an 18 yrs-old male who has been through one break-up before about a year ago (the first one is tough) and I never wanted to leave her, but she decided to end things. We are both in high school and she is 16 yrs. However, it’s been some time and I had recently gotten a new gf. The concerning thing to me is that I think it hurts her a bit because she posts on social media implying her feelings of being alone. I certainly don’t want this for her as a still care about her feelings but I wanted some advice—some insight—on whether I should send this song I wrote dedicated to her. Since we haven’t seen or spoken to the other in so long, I was curious on whether I should send it anonymously just to be a simple note of encouragement. Again, I don’t know what to do but I just wish to contact her in some way so that she receives further closure and make the healing process much easier. All advice is welcome—thank you! The Best For You - (Original) They always speak of the past, but I don’t know what for. Though I can’t help but wonder if I’d ever find a heart like yours, But truth says I could never—you’re irreplaceable. Your love is something to cherish—so embraceable. And I think you should know That, before I go, One day you’ll be someone’s everything Enough to make their heart sing. You can give the best of smiles, That will last their days awhile. And I hope you feel the same too, ‘Cause all I ever wanted for you Is to know what love can do And what it can do is the best for you! (Oh-oh, the best for you!) You know that sometimes good things weren’t always meant to be, But that won’t change the past, nor how much you meant to me. And forget you? I could never; your time is a treasure. I won’t be the only one whose heart you can change forever. And I think you should know That, before I go, One day you’ll be someone’s gold star, Who will love you for who you are. He’ll have you on top his mind, Thinking of you all the time. And I hope you feel it too, ‘Cause all I ever wanted for you Is to know what love can do And what it can do is the best for you! (Oh-oh, oh-oh the best for you!) Though it’s been some time, I had to deliver one last time ‘Cause I know that you deserve More than you know you’re worth. And I want you to know That, before I go, One day you’ll be someone’s world, His perfect, favorite girl. And I hope you know it too, ‘Cause all I ever wanted for you Is to know what love can do And what it can do it the best for you! (All-ll I ever wanted is the best for you) Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted April 1, 2021 Share Posted April 1, 2021 Do you still have feelings for her? Why did you both break up? It's inappropriate to be contacting an ex and sending songs dedicated to her when you're in another relationship so I'd suggest you reconsider and perhaps try to be a bit more thoughtful about the feelings of the woman you are currently dating right now. I understand you're trying to be Mr. Nice Guy but this will backfire. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted April 1, 2021 Share Posted April 1, 2021 Ask your current girlfriend how she feels about you still being in love with your ex and writing her love songs. Link to comment
Jibralta Posted April 1, 2021 Share Posted April 1, 2021 I think it's better if you don't send it. First, it would be disrespectful to your current girlfriend. Second, it could potentially string your ex along, even if that's not your intention. Let your ex move on. Keep your song and publish it later. Link to comment
O.F. Hanson Posted April 1, 2021 Author Share Posted April 1, 2021 To all: I apologize for leaving out a vital piece of the context here, but my current gf thought it be “sweet” if I did and she understands. I don’t so much have feelings for my ex but a piece of me still “feels” for her in some aspect—almost in an appreciative gesture. Link to comment
O.F. Hanson Posted April 1, 2021 Author Share Posted April 1, 2021 11 minutes ago, Jibralta said: Let your ex move on. Keep your song and publish it later. Thank-you for this. I suppose your right, I’ll publish later if I can. Link to comment
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