Batya33 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 11 hours ago, DepressedKitty said: I see. So I just have to accept that I ***ed up again and move on. I already made it clear to him I won't do that anymore. I feel like he was taking advantage of how I feel about him. He's very handsome so It's funny that he'd not have to be picky. Outer looks don't mean that people will be attracted to him - I met many many handsome guys and knew they weren't for me -even though I knew they were very very handsome. I don't think he's taking advantage of you because he's been clear about how he wants to interact with you. Link to comment
boltnrun Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 You're using interaction with this guy as a fantasy escape from your live in abusive boyfriend and your mental health issues. But it won't work. Resolving the issues in your life will. Once you're feeling better you will no longer want these kind of interactions. And you'll have the strength to leave the man who is abusing you and your poor cat. Link to comment
Drrth890 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 He is looking for sex. He has made this clear when he said that for now, it is only sex. He has literally said that. You say you want a proper relationship. If have thought it was obvious you won't get one with him....Move on. If you keep talking to him and end up hurt (when he had actually said he wants *just sex* then honestly it's your own fault. Link to comment
smackie9 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 I'm a gamer myself been playing MMOG for well over 10 years, and I know these guys are home alone with nothing better to do than to locate a participant to masturbate to or with out of boredom. They ain't looking for anything else but to release their hard-on. This isn't about him, this is about your mental state. When you are depressed, and self loathing, you start to have poor judgment and make poor choices. The regret will be the behavior you are exhibiting with this guy that you met on a game chat. You're a 31 yo woman not 18, take a good look at what you were doing!! Link to comment
Hollyj Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Another horrible choice in a man. You sent pics to a stranger- you have never met this person. And yuck, for him sending you a *** pic. I hope you did not include your face in those photos. This dude is not your friend! You need to use much better judgment, you are old enough to know better. When are you going to get you and the cat away from the monster you are living with? This should be your priority, not these online creeps. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 You asked for a mans take on this so I will give it to you. He wants sex and absolutely nothing else. If you met in person and had sex that is all it would be and you would likely never see him again. You want more than just sex so this is a non starter for you so please stop thinking he wants something other than to bang you a few times and get off to your pictures and video. He just wants to use you for sex. I know this is a distraction from your life but it isn't a solution. Lost Link to comment
SooSad33 Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 16 hours ago, DepressedKitty said: It's obvious he's interested in some sort of way. I mean why else do that? Most guys jack off to porn? Guys can do this to.. anything. Point is, he's a creep 😕 . Do not get involved with someone like this.. he's just horny, which is normal. Point is.. You know he's out of a LTR, and is nowhere near wanting something real ( an actual relationship), that he cannot give you. And as others have mentioned.. do not share yourself this way. Keep it real and respect yourself. Find someone out there who does not act like this, who does respect you and want you for YOU. Link to comment
LootieTootie Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 Gross! Not only that, this guy is a creep. Block him so you stopped getting distracted from your real issues. Find another family to take in your cat because the cat needs to be safe. If you love your cat, you would do that. Next time you wife beater boyfriend is physically assaulting you, call the police. If you don't have a phone, go online and reach out via email. There's help - temporary homes for victims. You just gotta look and ask. Link to comment
Rose Mosse Posted March 25, 2021 Share Posted March 25, 2021 He does this knowing you are living with your boyfriend? He's preying on individuals who are vulnerable and looking for an outlet and for acceptance. The request for nudes and videos like those are common place with a group of individuals online you'll have to learn to filter those people out. Make no mistake that if he's doing it with you or soliciting those photos and videos from you, he's also doing it with others before you and while pretending to be friends with you. He's not a friend if he crosses those boundaries, confuses you or takes advantage of your situation at home. No real friend (male or female) would take advantage of you like that and add to any kind of confusion in your life. You have mistaken him for something he's not. You have to remove yourself somehow and fix your living situation, keep looking for options (I read your other thread) because staying with your abusive boyfriend will keep you broken and your self-esteem low. Link to comment
maritalbliss86 Posted March 26, 2021 Share Posted March 26, 2021 On 3/24/2021 at 6:57 PM, DepressedKitty said: I can't tell if He's playing games with me. As I said we agreed to just be friends but then he made a move again. I figured a guy could give me an idea of what's going on In his head. I know I'm not a man, but I think he's going to continue to see how easy you are to use at times... based on how you respond. Just because he throws some interest your way, may not mean he's interested in more than just sex still. Link to comment
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