Wtfthefck 0 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 (edited) Is it normal when you get tired of your girlfriend? but, I still do love her bigtime. Edited February 28 by Wtfthefck Idk Quote Link to post Share on other sites
1a1a 98 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 I think, maybe, yes. And now one of two things can happen. Either you can make yourself remember what you love about her and remember how it felt the first time you kissed and reignite your passion for her, or this relationship has run it’s natural course and the spark won’t come back, in which case, love is not enough and you need to set her free. But you love her, lower case l, so may as well have a crack at trying to remember why she excites you. Esther Perel has good insights about this https://www.ted.com/talks/esther_perel_the_secret_to_desire_in_a_long_term_relationship/up-next?language=en Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SooSad33 631 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 So, I gather you love her -really care, but not 'in love' anymore. Things are fizzled out - are not romantically into it etc? Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MissCanuck 1,282 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 What exactly are you tired of? How long have you been dating? We need more context, OP. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 3,162 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 7 hours ago, Wtfthefck said: Is it normal when you get tired of your girlfriend? but, I still do love her bigtime. Stop spending too much time together. She may be getting tired of you too. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rose Mosse 1,111 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 I don't think I've ever felt this. If I'm in love with someone I'm not tired of them at all. Are you making enough time for yourself? Your own hopes and goals and dreams? It helps if you're out there loving and enjoying life too. Your partner should be enjoying her life and motivated by her own hopes/goals/dreams. Somewhere you travel parallel. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 818 Posted February 28 Share Posted February 28 I agree you are in GF overload....you are spending way too much time together. In order to keep things fresh you need to have a life and friends outside the relationship. Take a break and go do your own thing. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
tattoobunnie 351 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 Some people fall into the 4 year itch. Or where you think of each other like siblings. Some get a 7 year itch. If you are bored of her, most likely means, you have become boring. Plan dates. Take classes together. Get a new hobby to share today. Plan a vacation together. Sitting around netflixing at home over and over, or NEVER PROGRESSING makes any relationship boring. Not sure how long you've been dating, but sometimes you need to move forward to get where you need to be together. Marriage, Kids, big trips, etc. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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