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So I started dating a new man. I haven't experienced jealousy issues in a long time but I also was previously in a 5 year long relationship. This relationship was rocky by all means but my ex barely used social medias. And he also didn't really follow any sexual accounts. My new boyfriend however actively uses many social media platforms and follows lots of women that post very sexual photos. I can handle the ones that post in panties and stuff but today I noticed that on Twitter he follows pages of women who post full body nudes and it made feel super bad about myself. I unfollowed his twitter and made the decision to never look at it again. Is it disrespectful of him to follow a hit ton of pages on twitter where women are posting vagina pictures? I brought it up to him and he didn't seem to give a rats ass about how it made me feel. I don't feel like sending him nudes of me anymore if he just scrolls through his twitter and sees pics like that daily. Am I in the wrong for feeling that way? I don't know what to do but I am sick of feeling like this.

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My comment is about sending nudes to anyone.  Such a bad idea.  Once they are out there, they are out there forever.  You have  no idea of where they will end up and who will see them.  I think discretion is a much better idea.

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21 minutes ago, smollostbunbun said:

My new boyfriend however actively uses many social media platforms and follows lots of women that post very sexual photos. I brought it up to him and he didn't seem to give a rats ass about how it made me feel.

I don't feel like sending him nudes of me anymore

How long have you been dating? Are you sending him nudes? If so stop, those could go viral on social media in a nanosecond. 

You can't tell someone what to view or follow on  social media but what you can do is delete and block him from all our social media so you are not associated with a horndog like this.

You need to reconsider cutting your losses with some who "doesn't give a rats ass" about your feelings.

 

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How long you been dating this 'new guy'?  

Long after your other LTR?

As for his 'past time', maybe he's been single a long time - not an easy thing to just 'give up', if YOU are new to him.... I am wondering if this is just something similar to porn...

.The same thing is in those things.. which many find acceptable.

But, obviously is bothering you.

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You can choose to date a man who doesn't "follow" these types of social media.  That makes more sense than trying to get someone to "change" or to start playing "If you really loved me you'd stop!" games.

I hope the nudes you sent him don't have any identifying features on them.  I would bet he's been sharing your nudes online.

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