Hannah81 20 Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 6 hours ago, Capricorn3 said: How can he contact you if you have blocked him?? 😕 By turning up at my home or using another phone to call me Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted February 26 Author Share Posted February 26 3 hours ago, Hollyj said: It took me two seconds to find that stuff. I am certain the the UK has as many options. You have to want to help yourself, don’t you think it’s time? I have found lots of sites and they are looking like a great help. Also found a great platform on YouTube I have been watching 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,641 Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 (edited) 4 minutes ago, Hannah81 said: I have found lots of sites and they are looking like a great help. Also found a great platform on YouTube I have been watching Good for you! It will help you keep focused and strong. You also have us. Are you going to change the locks? You may also want to change your number, Edited February 26 by Hollyj Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Mel11 25 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 I have dealt with flirting and it is very hurtful and does cause trust issues. You are stronger than this and you will get through it as I am trying to do the same. Take it day by day and hour by hour if you have to. Keep your thoughts on the good life you want for yourself. That is what I keep trying and some days it works others bot so much. Hugs and be strong. 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 678 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 On 2/25/2021 at 10:08 PM, Hannah81 said: By turning up at my home or using another phone to call me Don't recognize the number?? don't answer it. It's that easy. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jibralta 1,270 Posted March 1 Share Posted March 1 55 minutes ago, smackie9 said: Don't recognize the number?? don't answer it. It's that easy. That's what I do! They can leave a message if it's important. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted Tuesday at 09:28 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 09:28 PM On 3/1/2021 at 11:53 AM, Mel11 said: I have dealt with flirting and it is very hurtful and does cause trust issues. You are stronger than this and you will get through it as I am trying to do the same. Take it day by day and hour by hour if you have to. Keep your thoughts on the good life you want for yourself. That is what I keep trying and some days it works others bot so much. Hugs and be strong. It’s so hard isn’t it!! Have you also left your partner because of this? I just said the exact same thing to a friend, I am taking it day by day. He has contacted me through another number and told me how sorry he was how much he loves me blah blah blah!! I’m feeling strong at the moment but that could all change tomorrow 😞 I was a total wreck yesterday xx Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,502 Posted Tuesday at 10:06 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 10:06 PM 37 minutes ago, Hannah81 said: It’s so hard isn’t it!! Have you also left your partner because of this? I just said the exact same thing to a friend, I am taking it day by day. He has contacted me through another number and told me how sorry he was how much he loves me blah blah blah!! I’m feeling strong at the moment but that could all change tomorrow 😞 I was a total wreck yesterday xx Why did you answer the call? You had to know it was probably him. Are you hoping he promises to "change" so you can go back to him? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted Tuesday at 10:42 PM Author Share Posted Tuesday at 10:42 PM 34 minutes ago, boltnrun said: Why did you answer the call? You had to know it was probably him. Are you hoping he promises to "change" so you can go back to him? It was a text message from a random number which I have also blocked now He hasn’t said he will change as he knows he won’t... just the sorry BS from him 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
shellyf62 184 Posted Tuesday at 10:48 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 10:48 PM 5 minutes ago, Hannah81 said: It was a text message from a random number which I have also blocked now He hasn’t said he will change as he knows he won’t... just the sorry BS from him Can you change your phone number? If so, dont give it to anyone who is in contact with him! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rose Mosse 745 Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:21 PM If he has to contact you like that through different numbers he doesn't care about your wellbeing and he doesn't respect you.. wouldn't someone who cares or loves you be more in tune with what makes you happy also and ready to let you go? All the more reason to keep your distance/don't respond. I'm sorry you're going through this. Stay strong. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Jibralta 1,270 Posted Tuesday at 11:48 PM Share Posted Tuesday at 11:48 PM 1 hour ago, Hannah81 said: It was a text message from a random number which I have also blocked now Why didn't you just ignore the message? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,641 Posted Wednesday at 04:58 AM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:58 AM I suggest that you change your number. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
LootieTootie 111 Posted Wednesday at 05:35 AM Share Posted Wednesday at 05:35 AM I know I am a stranger to you but I personally do not want you to go back to him. I am rooting for you. 💪 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted Wednesday at 05:57 AM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 05:57 AM 19 minutes ago, LootieTootie said: I know I am a stranger to you but I personally do not want you to go back to him. I am rooting for you. 💪 Thank you... everyday that passes I am getting that much stronger but I know I’m going to have bad days where I just want him back but I cannot and will not! I’m so angry with myself for ever letting him getting me this weak 🤷🏻♀️ 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted Wednesday at 05:58 AM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 05:58 AM 6 hours ago, Jibralta said: Why didn't you just ignore the message? I did and blocked the number 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hannah81 20 Posted Wednesday at 05:58 AM Author Share Posted Wednesday at 05:58 AM 6 hours ago, Rose Mosse said: If he has to contact you like that through different numbers he doesn't care about your wellbeing and he doesn't respect you.. wouldn't someone who cares or loves you be more in tune with what makes you happy also and ready to let you go? All the more reason to keep your distance/don't respond. I'm sorry you're going through this. Stay strong. Very true.... I am I am 💪🏽 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
boltnrun 1,502 Posted Wednesday at 03:59 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 03:59 PM If he has keys to your home I would get on adding a new lock or changing the existing locks asap. I had a situation when I came home from being out and the guy I had been previously dating was sitting in my living room on my couch watching TV. Very unsettling. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Hollyj 1,641 Posted Wednesday at 04:00 PM Share Posted Wednesday at 04:00 PM Just now, boltnrun said: If he has keys to your home I would get on adding a new lock or changing the existing locks asap. I had a situation when I came home from being out and the guy I had been previously dating was sitting in my living room on my couch watching TV. Very unsettling. Wow! What happened next? 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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