A real mess

[Hollyj]

2 hours ago, Wan2Bmiseryfree said:

Yes! Thank you! Nobody seems to get that.

Why don't you seek legal advice on this matter?   You are making it sound like you will have to live with forever, unless that is what you choose to do.

[Wiseman2]

2 hours ago, Hollyj said:

Why don't you seek legal advice on this matter?   You are making it sound like you will have to live with forever, unless that is what you choose to do.

Agree. If there's domestic violence, call the police then get a restraining order.

"she is trying to get me to hit her"?

All abusers say that. This is why you won't call the police.

[catfeeder]

I'd put the emotional stuff on the back burner to seek legal advice. I'd find out my options and the rights steps to take for each option. Then you can make decisions based on real information rather than on emotions alone.

[boltnrun]

I'm going to guess that, in between the beatings and crazy behavior, the sex with this petite hottie is porn star level phenomenal.

I can't tell you how many men friends have told me that sex with "crazy" is mind blowing.

You need to decide if the sex is worth all you have to put up with in order to get it.

And BTW, sane women can also be terrific in bed. And you don't run the risk of being jailed for DV.

[waffle]

5 hours ago, boltnrun said:

I'm going to guess that, in between the beatings and crazy behavior, the sex with this petite hottie is porn star level phenomenal.

I can't tell you how many men friends have told me that sex with "crazy" is mind blowing.

You need to decide if the sex is worth all you have to put up with in order to get it.

BINGO

After 8 years, OP is exactly where he wants to be.

 

[boltnrun]

OP, I wonder if she got treatment, got on medication and stopped all the crazy behavior you'd complain she's "boring".

People stay in drama relationships because they love the drama.  No other reason.