Galgar 1 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 So there are two girls I really like at school. One of them rides my bus, and the other I see around often and we have the same lunch. An important thing to note is that neither of them have ever talked to me before, and they both just so happen to be friends. A while ago I said hi twice to the one on the bus, but she never showed any interest in me, so I decided that I want to approach the other now. However, I have absolutely no idea how I can do this because I can’t find a single thing we have in common since we’ve never talked. I also think it would be weird if I show interest in her since I already showed interest in her friend and she didn’t care. I have no idea what to do. Which one would be the best to approach? How do I even approach them and start a conversation? What would be the best time to do so? (In the hallway, at lunch, etc). Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,768 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 Sure you can. You go to the same school, so break the ice with some chitchat about classes, homework, teachers, etc. You have to start out with small talk even if it seems silly, it's the social lubricant you need for people to get to know you and like you. Be upbeat, fun and outgoing smile a lot. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
MissCanuck 1,069 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 Hey there OP, could I ask how old you are before I give specific advice? I want to be sure that what I suggest is relevant to your age group. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SooSad33 427 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 (edited) Best one to approach, is the one who isn't ignoring you.. .. say HI to the other one. Lunch w/ her? Smile & say Hi then, as you walk past her :) - If she responds, there's a start. Then see IF she starts to check you out, should you run into each other... Edited January 22 by SooSad33 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Rose Mosse 692 Posted January 22 Share Posted January 22 You don't owe anything to bus girl so leave that idea at the door. Chat with whomever you please and follow the advice about smiling and keeping an open mind. You're not going in there to date everyone who looks at you. You're just there to chat and get to know people. Think of it in a friendly way and don't put so much pressure on yourself. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Galgar 1 Posted January 22 Author Share Posted January 22 8 hours ago, MissCanuck said: Hey there OP, could I ask how old you are before I give specific advice? I want to be sure that what I suggest is relevant to your age group. I'm 17 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Galgar 1 Posted January 23 Author Share Posted January 23 Oh yeah, and something new came up also. It seems that they both ride my bus now. This just happened today. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Wiseman2 2,768 Posted January 23 Share Posted January 23 7 minutes ago, Galgar said: Oh yeah, and something new came up also. It seems that they both ride my bus now. This just happened today. Excellent. More opportunities to break the ice and make some friends and small talk about school, classes, teachers, etc. Be confident. Just smile and don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. Everyone is human. Be the first to just say hi. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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